I had two great dates with this girl. She was really interested at the end of our second date. Suddenly, three days later, she went cold and distant on me. Since then she has been cold. I have no idea why. My behavior hasn't changed at all, always kind and respectful. Now, what should I do? Should I play hard to get?
I think the ‘how long she’s been cold’ is a missing component to the question. If she went dark on you three months ago - move on. If it was three days ago, then just ask her out again and see how it goes. If it’s only been three days since you’ve spoken then calm down and don’t overthink it. Women can be moody AND people have a life outside somebody they’ve dated twice. They could be going through any list of things they are trying to work through. Don’t overly pry and don’t get too caught up in it. Ask her out and if she’s interested she will let you know. If not, then accept you will probably never know why and move on.
Lastly, you cannot play hard to get if someone went cold on you.
Talk to her. Find out why she went cold. Could be a legit reason other than what you might be thinking.
She was probably expecting to hear you say that you had a good time and would like to have even more. You don't say you did, so that is probably why she ghosted you.
You can only do so much. Time to pull the plug.
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Unfortunately it's probably because she went after someone else, maybe even an ex. No one who had 2 good dates with you goes cold like that simply because you turned them off. The usual reason is because they started liking someone else. And she is acting cold with you most likely in the hopes that you will let her go - which you definitely should do - or because she feels guilty and is trying to project that on you.
Ditch her.
She either met somebody else or was seeing somebody else during the time that she was seeing you and made a decision that she was more interested in the other guy. There's not much you can do about this at all. Women do this sort of thing often and you have to just get used to it.
You should give her a piece of your mind.. tell her how stupid and immature she is being.. how playful and manipulative.. Many girls like to be coward.. instead of being straight , they just go cold on you.. she can say she is not interested any more.. she can explain but she is coward..
Tell her that and move over.. wasting your time with this disrespectful immature girl won't gain you anything..
Sometimes people just don't click as a couple. I've had fun on dates but realized that there was no romance brewing on my part. Sometimes the girls have been hurt because of this because the dates went well. Maybe that is what went on.
All I can think of is you were moving too slow for her when she wanted to jump your bones, or she's having some kind of problems in her life, or is screwing some other guy. Either way, just tell her you feel like she's going cold on you and you wish her the best, and then stop calling or texting her.
There is no commitment, she could be dating around…and now picked someone else.
I was like that before.
Don't play hard to get at all. Just cut ties with her
Walk away mate you'll find someone better who treats you well
Give her a call or text her. Ask her out again and see what is up
Let her Be. If She Likes you Enough, She Will Come back. I Feel, Speaking from Experience on My own Behalf, I would Grow Cold Duck Feet if Things Were moving Too Fast. xxoo
You can't play hard to get when you're not wanted. 🤣 she rejected you move on stop being a weird psycho
it sounds pretty much like she had a better date or went back to her ex. i would let her alone
I you had two great dates, then statistically speaking... she's PMSing or about to.
Move on. She's not worth your time or energy
A wise man once said: Only 2 things make a woman unhappy. Getting what she wants... not getting what she wants.
Hard to get? Are you a fucking child? Grow up and move on. If she's interested, you'll know it.
Doesn’t matter what you do if she’s not coming around. Act like whatever but it sounds like she won’t even notice so it seems silly and childlike.
What exactly happened here? Date 2 went really well. I presume you asked her out for date 3. What did she say?
Maybe she had a better date with someone else. Of she got busy with something else…
IT'S UNFORTUNATE BUT I WOULDN'T PUT UP WITH THAT SHIT
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