What does it mean whenever you go online your boyfriend goes offline?

Question

Whenever I go online my boyfriends last seen is the same time I went online and he only answer an hour later and goes of as soon as I'm typing yet when I'm not online he'd stay on whatsapp for a while, am I seeing things or is he just avoiding me? And what would this mean? And what should I do about it?

smne35 · Accepted Answer

Your kidding right, what should you do about it, will he's either taking with others females or playing games with you and I'm sure he's familiar with how the site works far as knowing when your on line and not and is trying a message and he then goes away when he's sees you sending him a message, he's chatting with other females or at least he hopes they are, what's app is one of the most scammer filled apps out there besides dating sites, I avoid that site at all cost, most on their are either Nigerians middle Eastern or from Asian countries, Philippines Singapore those areas, not long ago make a long take short I observed for almost a year, how scammers operated live and they are well organized and know how to to get by the security of just about any e web site, not even the military is immune how me away how organized these people are it's not just one person in a shack it's a bunch of them sitting at terminals like a9 to 5 job any way I learn about about their methods they got access to generated their own credit cards that is real that really stunned me how they did that, what's app telegram face book nothing but scammers anyway your guy is most likely chatting with another person, and when he sees your on he's gone and probably swears it wasn't him, just don't show make public when your on line have it set to away and go online and see how much time he's spending on there, even though you live in line it will show that your away, if you think it's worth it to do that!

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Yo, that is definitely weird behavior from your boy. Some possibilities for what it could mean:

- He could be chatting with other girls when you're not around and doesn't want you to see him active. Trying to hide something shady maybe.

- He might be annoyed/bored talking to you and only replying out of obligation. Going offline as a way to avoid more convo.

- Could be nothing at all and you're just overthinking small coincidences.

I'd say trust your gut though. If he's being that obviously evasive, I'd call him out. Maybe ask him straight up why he's always offline when you message and see how he reacts. Pay attention to if his response seems dodgy.

You deserve to be with someone who WANTS to talk to you and makes you a priority, you know? I wouldn't put up with him clearly avoiding you like that. Demand honesty from him at least. If he keeps being shady, might be time to reconsider things. Don't let someone treat you like an afterthought! You got this.

RoseySarah · Accepted Answer

Facebook does this a lot from time to time! Maybe cause it checks when you go online and never checks Thier online status for a long time?

Cause my ex ldr would say he is on his phone not in messenger but was on his phone.

Facebook would say he was online when I logged in but then show his offline time when I logged in.

Facebook is dumb no idea about the other apps. Google messenger was kinda accurate?

Snapchat was always missing cause you had to be on it on it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm confused. What does it matter if he's online or offline. Is WhatsApp your only means of contact... if not you have each-other number you want to speak with him do that. I don't see how the timing of him being on WhatsApp could equate to him avoiding you.

Avicenna · Answer

Talk to him about and ask what's going on

lightbulb27 · Answer

I'm beyond tired of answering questions to translate what some online behavior means in relationships. So I'll vent...:). CALL THE Fer up and TALK TO HIM! If you can't get a straight answer, go to boyfriends are us and trade him in on a new model. Or better, agree to turn all that crap off, spend physical time together and build a relationship. You'll be amply rewarded in heaven. Your generation is the one to only know reality with social media... but it's garbage and that's a fact, ask Zuckerberg and Bill Gates if you dare.

I'm sentencing both of you to get an old rotary phone just as therapy. plug it into an obihai so you can use it over the internet. Being forced to slow dial a rotary phone will be "excruciating pain" for you both... and it's good for you.

You're welcome!

SeymourBill420 · Answer

Well, to me it sounds like if you're online and he's online whether it being WhatsApp or whatever. Then it doesn't sound like you guys are in a fruitful relationship. Because, if you guys are staying separate or doing things separate from one another. Then you need to put your phone down and go see what he's doing. And if he's doing something that you think you should not be doing. Then that's your fault because you're online and not doing what you should be doing to prevent him from doing what you're not doing. So, it really seems quite juvenile. If you're in a relationship and in the same house as your boyfriend, you definitely should not have your devices in your hand if it's family time. And, if you guys are living apart, then it's not really that serious of a relationship. Because a relationship is 90% physical, and it sounds like you would be neglecting him at that point.

BCA6010 · Answer

Every app is a bit different but some of ones I've used over the years aren't actually accurate about who's online until theyve been running for a 10-15 seconds, so I wouldn't worry about it much based on that alone. If he was trying to hide, he would have his account set to always be invisible or appear offline.

Kxkxkxkx · Answer

It's hard to say, but his behaviour seems kind of strange. I don't know if it is toxic or not, but i would probably text him less (or stop texting) and see if he texts you first.

Are his answers short and does he try to continue the conversation or does it feel like he replies just because he has to?

molonski2 · Answer

You shouldn't do anything , but he obvious doesn't want to get caught in some long drawn out conversation while He is chatting with other women.

OddBeMe · Answer

I’m guessing “going online” is in a particular social media platform and not (fidgets old man hat) going America Online.

he's doing something he doesn’t want you to see. Not sure that’s necessarily bad. Kinda like a husband and porn. Lol

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Yeah, it seems as though he might be avoiding you, maybe he just ain't feeling it as much anymore.. You should communicate to him that it's seemingly like he doesn't want to talk to you. Talk it out with him and see how it goes.

YesterdaysChild · Answer

Are you sure he is really a boyfriend? Seems to me he may be jumping the fence for a greener pasture.

Likes2drive · Answer

Sounds like he’s just busy talking to someone else probably a woman and gets off as soon as you come on so you don’t think he’s talking to anybody. Seems like he’s being sneaky and doesn’t want you to know that he’s on line with someone else

Nemesis2k7 · Answer

Been through this before. a few times. I personally think the person is "playing games" or "hard to get". its a form of manipulation / control. i ended up either closing my social media account because of that kind of nonsense, or i block the person.

DreamLife7 · Answer

Why are you harrassing him? He doesn't owe you shit. Maybe he's tired of dealing with you. And had he ever said you're his girlfriend? Sounds like you're labeling him with a title he never asked for. You're insecure and obviously not attractive with no personality. Get a life and some friends ur weird

MsBell2018 · Answer

Honestly, I'd ask him about, then I'd get a different boyfriend. Sounds like he's avoiding you. I'm so sorry you're involved with a child & not a man.

Paris13 · Answer

Maybe Scared You May Think Something is Up Or----More... Investigate. xxoo

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Or he's hiding something or a stupid coincidence try it out. Appear offline, if the app lets you and see if he's on, then switch to online and see what happens.

summiter · Answer

Maybe he dies not want u to see what he is chatting about online

rosemilk · Answer

i think you're looking too deeply into things

IrishStewed · Answer

He likes to hide his actions from you because you would be ruining his fun. I'm thinking there are some trust issues going on here.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Kinda weird.. maybe he does not want u to see what he is going online. How is ur sex life with him? Do u live together?

strateguy632 · Answer

if the pattern repeated it showed he is avoiding you. but you can still write text messages.

jshm2 · Answer

Means he knows you're drama, and hasn't got time for that shit.

loveslongnails · Answer

Just curious, are you local to each other or is this an LDR? Do you suspect he's being dishonest with you or hiding something other than this?

Yoursweetgirl · Answer

If it's hapenning all the time then I think he's avoiding you, if it happens sometimes or rarely, then it's just a coincidence

goaded · Answer

It could just be that it tells you his status from the last time you were online until it checks this time. Test it with a friend.

LaterZ · Answer

Try talking to him instead of asking the internet that doesn't have the slightest clue about your situations

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It means you guys need to be more intentional about the time you spend together. Stop leaving things up to chance.

linka_pat307 · Answer

Bad timing from your side 😂😂😂what if he waited for you to come online and you didn't

RingOfFire · Answer

Bad news. It is a sure sign that the world is in the End Times.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Usually he’s talking to someone else or he’s not interested in you

Nerdvana · Answer

Strange coincidence. What did he say when you talk to him about it?

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Translator  I swear i thought girls only do that

Christoff92 · Answer

Probably doesn't want you to see who he's talking to. Probably another girl online.

Luopio27 · Answer

Internet to him is like one big toilet. You dont go in there at the same time!

Massageman · Answer

Start with the trust issues and work from there.

nawtee_me · Answer

He is cheating and doesn’t want to talk to you where she can see it….

ask_again · Answer

Do this back to him and stop caring about things like this and you would see that he would wonder why you are not that into him again. I was like this in the past and I took that power back

Anonymous · Answer

Does he avoid you in person or does he act annoyed?

sage2021 · Answer

He might be looking at porn.

KaiidiraX · Answer

Sounds like he's avoiding you online.

CharlotteNoivern · Answer

It depends on timezones and everything

Nikki1989 · Answer

Only he knows the answer to that.

HawkPerception · Answer

He deals with you enough in his every day life 🤣

SphynxUK · Answer

They don’t want to talk

katiesmuff · Answer

My guess is your sharing the same laptop!

boobliker · Answer

he has had enought

Iron_Man · Answer

Maybe he doesn’t want you spying on him

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

Maybe you need a different boyfriend.

Bella2423 · Answer

He is escaping from you

Charliefretz329 · Answer

You should ask him directly

HouseMoat · Answer

I wouldn't worry about it

Anonymous · Answer

He's avoiding you.

Fuentes · Answer

Are u annoying?

FenixG45 · Answer

Sounds like he might be avoiding you

azgınteke · Answer

running away from you

Anonymous · Answer

He's mad at you?

IloveWinters · Answer

He is avoiding u probably

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Could be a coincidence

jaskin777 · Answer

He cheating

butterly248 · Answer

Speak to him

krin_m · Answer

Just ask him.

What does it mean whenever you go online your boyfriend goes offline?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

I go online he goes offline?

What does it mean whenever you go online your boyfriend goes offline?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

I go online he goes offline?

We're glad to see you liked this post.