If you're not needed, you're almost always not wanted. That's why the women who spout the 'I don't need a man!' rhetoric usually are happily single. It's not that I want a man to depend on me, I just want him to benefit from the relationship
Meet someone with the same mindset and see how far that takes you lol
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You know I do try at first. It’s just if I’m not feeling it for any doubts, I just move on. But so far the two women I’m talking to at the moment seem to think almost like me. So I’m not a total loss😂
Isn't that kind of... normal? In my mind, if you have a well paying job, you don't need another person, you'll survive on your own. I want companionship however. Want. Not need.
Sounds like you searching for someone who doesn't have trauma (mostly never exist) or someone who already make amends with their trauma (already heal). Kinda hard this day to find healthy people mentally and physically
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Tell me about it. I met a narcissist on a blind date recently. And it was the worse thing ever. Made me lose my faith in humanity lol
No woman would want YOU, so I am not sure what this trolling is all about.
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Why do you say that? If you should know, I’m talking to two women at the moment who are interested in me. And they seem good so far, but we’ll see how things go. So no, I’m not trolling
Most guys can be self-sufficient. Part of it is lack of desire to be so though. We are willing to put up with an emotionally unstable person (to a degree) to have help doing all we need to do.
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If you're not needed, you're almost always not wanted. That's why the women who spout the 'I don't need a man!' rhetoric usually are happily single. It's not that I want a man to depend on me, I just want him to benefit from the relationship
Meet someone with the same mindset and see how far that takes you lol
You know I do try at first. It’s just if I’m not feeling it for any doubts, I just move on. But so far the two women I’m talking to at the moment seem to think almost like me. So I’m not a total loss😂
Isn't that kind of... normal? In my mind, if you have a well paying job, you don't need another person, you'll survive on your own. I want companionship however. Want. Not need.
Sounds like you searching for someone who doesn't have trauma (mostly never exist) or someone who already make amends with their trauma (already heal). Kinda hard this day to find healthy people mentally and physically
Tell me about it. I met a narcissist on a blind date recently. And it was the worse thing ever. Made me lose my faith in humanity lol
Suck for you. I also just break up from my ex who doesn't even believe in therapist. Hope you find your mate, soldier. *Salute*
I want to be with a woman who doesn't need me but chooses me.
I hear you
If you want high value woman you shouldn't look for him at a bar
Congratulations on your life privilege
As for hobbies, may I suggest Magnet Fishing
No woman would want YOU, so I am not sure what this trolling is all about.
Why do you say that? If you should know, I’m talking to two women at the moment who are interested in me. And they seem good so far, but we’ll see how things go. So no, I’m not trolling
I think that is a good life strategy you have there. Women don't respect men who they can manipulate.
If you want to have a stress free life then women are really not for you.
There’s good women out there. Just have to find them. But the two women I’m talking to at the moment seem good.
You earn as much as a doctor and taking girls out to eat would set you back? Must be talking salary of a dentist type doc 😂
But hey if you're happy, enjoy it.
Most guys can be self-sufficient. Part of it is lack of desire to be so though. We are willing to put up with an emotionally unstable person (to a degree) to have help doing all we need to do.
It goes both ways, I don't think they would care. Time is a crucial thing and is only given when sought for
So you agree having sex w/ a lot of women is a sign of men's value
I don't think they care. Their inboxes are overloaded.
used to it cuz that's always
the case
So I Pretend Not To Care
Try Not To Dwell
Hey, I’m sorry you feel that way. I hope you find whatever you’re looking for.
Ohk Thnx
No one should need anyone, the goal is to want to be there for each other when dating.
He is free to decide what's right for him just like I am.
If you're an adult and you still need people consider yourself screwd in life.
You say make as much as a doctor but can't afford to take a woman on a date 😂😂🤣