I recently meet this guy and I gave him my number in the beginning of us talking he respond to my messages slow he apologized a few times and said he did not see my messages. I told him it was fine and we continue to talk. We have been talking for about eight weeks now And he has only been texting me every 5 to 6 days or sometimes he text me once a day. It’s really getting annoying I was gonna give him some time to work on his communication but it seems to be getting worse. Should I be concerned that he’s in a relationship? Should I have a conversation with him about his communication or just cut him off?
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Guy I gave my number to mostly text me once a week?
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The fact that this guy is only hitting you up once a week is kinda suspect. Usually when a dude is feeling a girl, he wants to talk to her way more than that.
I'd be wondering if maybe he's got a girlfriend or something else going on since he doesn't seem that interested in chatting much. His excuses about not seeing messages are lame too. Who doesn't check their phone more than once a week?
Personally if I were you, I'd call him out on it. Maybe something like "hey, I've noticed you only text me once a week. Is everything cool? Feels like you're not that interested." See what he says. Pay attention to his reaction.
If he gets all defensive or makes up more excuses, I'd just move on. You deserve a dude who puts in more effort than this guy. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't excited to talk to you, feel me?
Up to you if you even wanna have that convo or not. But either way, I wouldn't get too invested until he steps up his game big time. Dudes only make time for what they really want, so... yeah. Just watch out for yourself!
Well this won't go anywhere, now, will it?
Look did he said that he is interested in you romantically? Or did he wanna talk with you?