Cause if he thought I was a go that’s OKAY! But I set a boundary with him and told him that I wasn’t looking for sex and that im protecting myself and he really seemed to care.
I asked him if that was all he wanted and he said he didn’t want to go back and forth bc I misunderstand what he says… in the beginning he said he wasn’t looking for sx specifically
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Have you had sex with other men and just decided to make him wait?
No I haven’t had sex with other men I’m a virgin but he didn’t know that
I think he thought I was a ho
Asker... therein lies the problem.
Where’s the problem?
Cause if he thought I was a go that’s OKAY! But I set a boundary with him and told him that I wasn’t looking for sex and that im protecting myself and he really seemed to care.
If he thinks you have given it up to other men but are making him wait, this puts him in the simp zone.
Ohh I was scared to tell him I’m a virgin but o well
He doesn’t value me nor does he think high of me
Asker... a woman's virtue is highly valued by men.
I just have really low self esteem
But he just wanted to use me. Different story…
Asker... find a good man, preserve your virtue for him.
You lied. Justification is different things to different people.
Lied about?
"I wasn’t all the way honest"
You admitted to lying right there.
I wanted sex and doesn't want to deal with women who talk about marriage.
Correction:
He wanted sex and doesn't want to deal with women who talk about marriage, but I would block you as well.
He just wanted sex. You did nothing wrong.
I asked him if that was all he wanted and he said he didn’t want to go back and forth bc I misunderstand what he says… in the beginning he said he wasn’t looking for sx specifically
He lied. He definitely wanted a relationship with sex. No sex was a deal breaker.
Right a sexual relationship
@hollyk21
What is ghosting? I am 63 and never heard of such.
Ignoring someone as a way to reject them or avoid an awkward conversation
We called it "Giving them the Cold Shoulder".
Why was she ugly? He def gave me the cold shoulder
I think that’s a asshole move
Yeah… after 3 months I still feel like shit and still think about him…
It really hurt because I was so guarded up and I thought he talked to me in a way that was so masculine and understanding
But if he feels he can do better then what can I do.
ghosting is never justified