Why do only underage girls flirt with me (24M) and show interest?

[Anonymous]

Is it because underage girls haven't honed their social skills yet or they are unable to hide their feelings? Are they full of hormones and willing to experiment? Or do they like me more than guys their age because they think those guys are immature? Or because I look a bit younger, like 21-22? These girls are at best 18. My ex was 18. No girl my age shows that she is interested.

[Oliverlogan263]

Bro, it's always best to avoid any situations that could compromise your integrity or get you in legal trouble. Some things to consider:

- Underage girls are still developing emotionally/socially. It's easy to misread friendliness as flirting since they may not clearly communicate intentions yet.

- At your age, you should pursue fully mature women - focus your energy there instead of overanalyzing youthful interest that can't lead anywhere.

- Looking young is cool, but girls your age may feel you don't see them as equals if eyeing teens mainly. Show interest in peers to find a match.

- Hormones do make us all a bit foolish at that age. It's on the adult to set boundaries, for both legal and moral reasons.

My advice - be flattered by admiration but gracefully steer clear of any situations that could give the wrong impression. Wait a few years and things may change naturally as people mature. For now, put your energy into dates that feel right and legal!

[Asker]

I am not going to engage with them in any shape or form, don't worry. I was just thinking why this happens to me. Why women my age are not interested in me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I gotcha man, my bad for jumping to conclusions. It's definitely a head-scratcher why girls your age aren't into you as much. A few other things it could be:

- Women in their 20s might be more particular about what they're looking for in a partner. Teenage girls are still learning.

- You could come across as more stable and mature than other guys your age, which younger girls see as a plus but women want a true equal.

- How you carry yourself or your look/style might appeal more to a teen audience than women your generation.

- Could be you're into scenes/activities that attract younger crowds more. Need to find ways to meet women with similar interests.

- Online dating apps might skew you towards a younger demographic too depending how you set your filters.

Best thing is work on putting your best self out there through your social circle, hobbies etc. Be confident in who you are rather than worrying why some don't like you. The right girl will appreciate you for you, just give it time man. Don't lose hope, your twenties are for having fun anyway!

[FunkyMonkee]

So far, 3 of them have professed their love for me! One asked me to marry her! She was only 3.
Sure wish I knew how to get single adult chicks interested in me the way pre-teens and married chicks are! It's not fair that the only love I can get is from people I'm not allowed to touch!

[LibrarianDreams]

I believe it's an attraction to stability and maturity. I've experienced it as well haha

[Asker]

But I'm nowhere near stability and I still have much maturity work to do.