New girlfriend follows a bunch of guys on instagram, and I think I’m falling out of love, how do I proceed?

[Anonymous]

She recently got a new instagram account, and half of who she followed were guys. I’m not saying she’s cheating, but I just get a feeling of not even trying anymore with her. Because like what’s the point if she doesn’t even find me special? Like I rather be with someone who only thinks of me. Because that’s what I do for them.

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3 mo

I ended our conversation early today, and told her I was going to bed when I’ve been awake thinking

[Oliverlogan263]

Ahh man that's really rough. Insta can definitely cause drama sometimes. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions yet though. Just cuz she's following other dudes don't necessarily mean she ain't into you anymore.

Girls are just kinda curious I guess, always lookin at other people's pics and stuff. Maybe try talkin to her about how it makes you feel insecure or whatever. In a chill way, not accusin her of anything. Just be like hey I noticed this, can we chat bout it?

She might not even realize it's botherin you, ya know? Good communication is important. And then see how she responds. If she's dismissive or doesn't care bout your feelings, that'd be a red flag. But she might just need a little reminder that you come first.

Also don't forget how you were feelin before this. That rush of lovin someone don't just disappear overnight. Give it some time and see if your bond is still there in person. Social media ain't real life. Just tryin talk it out with her is probly the move for now before doin anything drastic. Hope things work out dude!

[boggboss]

So end it if your not willing to speak to her about

[HelpfulWoman]

😂😂😂
Do just end it. This is immature dumbarsery on a new level.

[naartjie]

And now guys get what girls have been saying for the longest time ever