Is it all men’s fault if they can’t get women?

[Anonymous]

They say it’s all men’s fault right.

But is it? Women reject you for being nice and too available. They value stupid things. Like being a gentleman to a girl should be loved by women. But it’s icky. They want guys that have a lot of interest from other women.

It’s all men’s fault

It’s women’s fault too

[Yannae]

It depends, but mostly it's ours. I look at my own experience. high school I pushed away the girl who liked me. Later, I did the same. Third time I did the same. I used dating sites and apps, I matched, we talked for a bit and planned a date. The date went well and it has always been Them who wanted to take it further. My mind wasn't there yet so guessed, what I pushed them away, I didn't give them that confirming yes so they lost interest although I did like them. I just needed more time. They did offer sex. I can get women, but I wasn't as ready as they were to proceed to the next step. Another time where nothing happened was when I didn't make dating my priority, I didn't date at all and didn't meet any new people. So I was to blame.

[Anonymous]

Bro my friend is fat/short, works at a McDonald's and doesn't drive and he still gets girls. That would lead me to believe that this is a you problem. Every guy can get girls, you just might have to lower your standards and might not get the gorgeous women you feel entitled to. Also, women do like nice guys, at least the ones who are worth being with and there is no shortage of those women. However, women don't like weak, timid, push over dudes. You can be a nice guy without being everything else that repels women.

[MinaLyLi]

Be confident, compliment them, make them feel you have their back, make them feel special, secure and understood, it usually does the trick. I have a few male friends that like me and think that I don't want them because of their looks, or because they're too nice, or too available. But the truth is not - I've dated worse looking guy than them, I've dated nicer and more available. It's usually because they don't know how to talk to women and most importantly, they don't know how to listen. Also, a common trait in these guys: they're stingy.

[Billlewis]

That is easily one of the most excellent responses to a question I've ever seen, and I just started following you, as a result. I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

[LazerBean]

Men and women can only blame themselves for their relationship failures.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Don't worry about what women say. Get yourself on a good career path, work on your communication skills, work on being grateful for what you have and have a plan for your future. Be the man you would want your daughter to be with. You don't want a woman who doesn't like nice guys but to attract a good woman, you need to be a good man. A good man is always in demand

[Anonymous]

It depends what you mean by "get". If you mean sex, then yes it's your fault. I don't care what you look like I promise you there's at least one hose hound out there who'll do you. You just haven't used every trick in your bag yet.

But if you mean find a woman to date and build a meaningful gful relationship, that is a little harder. That might not be your fault. Unless you want a relationship built on lies and tri very. And if that be the case what would be the point.

[andreasderjuengere]

Yes it is.
The girl we are interested in should be chosen well. And with no haste. And without "desperation"

[FunkyMonkee]

It's all women's fault because they don't have a clue what the hell they want!!

[Chthou95]

If you've tried everything but still can't get one then no its not your fault but its not women's fault either. That's just life. Love and relationships are not a guarantee for everyone

[SolitarySolace]

No. Women just don’t take responsibility for anything. Ever.

[AngryCarl]

Is it a man's fault that he's too short, too ugly or he doesn't earn enough money? Dating is a game and in a game there are winners and losers.

[noohair]

Life is very superficial now.

[BarryLiverstone]

Your fault