(22M & F) For context, it's been 4 years since I've dated, so I'm rusty on things. I've been talking to this girl since mid January, and we get along great, and mutually enjoy spending time with each other and getting to know each other. We aren't dating, but we've talked about it and are in a limbo state between being friends and dating. She's taken me to her house and I've met her mom and brother (parents are divorced so I didn't meet her dad yet), we've briefly talked about marriage where she stated how long she'd want to be in a relationship before getting married, and other things that make me think we're going in a good direction. Very generous with her time and will go out of her way so we can spend time together, and I do the same.
I do have insecurities from past relationships starting to build up, so it could just be me overthinking and worrying too much. And I do manage those insecurities by taking stress medication which helps, but I can only take so much at a time, so these insecurities poke up a little. I am working on myself though, so these won't be lasting feelings and are starting to fade away. I guess too it could just be that since it's been so long since I've been in a situation like this, I could just be overwhelmed from it all.
Anyways, we made plans to see each other this Thursday. Then today, this conversation takes place (pictures)
I kinda regret sending that last text, but I didn't want her to think that I didn't care about seeing her or something along those lines.
I know I overthink, I really just am trying to figure out if that's the case of if I'm losing her interest.
Are these texts a bad sign or nothing to worry about?
Should I take the L and move on emotionally?
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
1 mo
Geez 2 months what are you waiting for? You'll probably will get friend zoned now. I get it since I've been your age. You want some sign she feels something about you. Well women don't do that. It's always best to just ask her out and then later if you feel she doesn't to just dump her. I know it sounds mean. But it's really not. Women created this order a long time ago. We just play within the rules.
