My boyfriend left me at the side of the road, what should I do about that?

[chick]

We had a romantic date night last Sunday everything was fine. I was telling a story about my teacher who was always lucky to find 4 leaf clovers and he said that actually his ex gave her one. After that I dont know why I got so jeaolus and started to be moody. He asked me if I want some dessert I said no but after he passed I said I want it but there wasn't a road to turn back.. So he said he is going home instead but I said no and I insisted. After that he pulled the car and said if I want it that much I can go and get it and he will meet me at the house. What? I feel like he punished me like a child? We are not good for two days now.. What should I do?

[philinthe]

Being left on the side of the road, regardless of the argument leading up to it, is not okay. It's understandable that emotions can run high, especially when past relationships come up unexpectedly, but communication is key in these moments, not punishment or abandonment.

It sounds like you're back and safe now, which is good. Reflecting on the incident, try to understand what triggered your reaction and share that with him. It seems like the mention of his ex and the four-leaf clover stirred some jealousy, which is natural. However, how both of you handle these feelings is what matters. I

Approach the conversation with the intention of understanding each other better and establishing how to handle disagreements more constructively in the future. Leaving someone on the side of the road is quite extreme and not a healthy way to resolve conflict.

[Nifrayu]

You remind me of myself 11 years ago minus the jealousy. You sound like you have the same emotional hypersensitivity that I live with. You have to learn to understand your emotions, how they are triggered and how they effect your behavior. Don't let your emotions responses run your life.. I recommend seeing a therapist about this. As for your relationship I think you have already figured out what led the up to the issue, but think it over and make sure you have a good understanding and then talk to him about it. Be sure to ask him how he feels about things. You both should try to understand each other.

[OlderAndWiser]

"He asked me if I want some dessert I said no but after he passed I said I want it. . . he said he is going home instead but I said no and I insisted. . . . he punished me like a child" Seems that you acted like a spoiled little child but his behavior was also out of line. Maybe you two are meant to be?

[TrueConfection]

hahaha

I did the same thing once. I pulled the car over and told my husband to walk the rest of the way. I was giving him a ride to his car and he was a raging jerk. It was a short rest of the way, but I wasn't going to be his victim.

[Account]

Umm he left you alone at night to walk home on foot? That shit is dangerous. Yet you are still considering fixing things with him? Why?

[Finchie40]

Realize you 2 aren’t meant for each other and move on

[IslaTheWitch]

tbh you acted like a child... and you both went to extremes...

you should talk it out, but WITHOUT blaming, it should be more like a retrospective... I felt jealous and I overreacted and ask him how he did feel. Make an agreement how you both want to solve similar situation in the future.

also work on keeping your emotions at bay... overreacting won't help you in any relationship

[Flatmanlewis]

I don’t think leaving you by the side of the road was the right way to handle that but I also think you are showing some rather immature behavior. People have ex’s. Big deal. He’s with you now. Don’t give him. Reason to block out parts of his life story with you or to fear what he may say could trigger a unnecessary reaction from you. It’s simply not worth it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

You sound exhausting. I can't say I blame him, though that could have been unsafe depending on where you live. Do both of you a favor and break up.

[FreyaRed]

Well, you both tried to show each other who has more power. Parent and child in the same time but no one showed mature behavior.

[fantasticass]

Are you 5 year's old? You are a spoiled brat. Stop it!!

[JacobJordan]

So you got a fuckin attitude and he didn't tolerate it. Good man.

[Anonymous]

well, i don't want to be rude, but you say he was punishing you like a child. but... that is because you WERE acting like a CHILD. instead of being moody, talk about your feelings.

[DextroShade]

You acted like a child and he treated you like one. Next time try to not be such an insecure bitch.

[Staximus]

Sounds like both of you acted like jackasses. You shouldn't have insisted and got out of the car and he shouldn't have drove away. You're both really dumb.

[Starrrboy]

" but after he passed I said I want it but there wasn't a road to turn back.. So he said he is going home instead but I said no and I insisted "... it's your fault 🤷‍♂️..

[Anonymous]

are you still there?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you threw a tantrum but he should never have left you in a dangerous situation on the side of a road.

[sakurayuki0629]

Break up and never come back together, have some respect for yourself

[Iron_Man]

Did he ever come back and pick you up? How far did you have to walk

[Sam12348]

You are 34 and acting like a kid. You got what you deserved

[Sam12348]

No offence but he deserves better than you if this is how your relationship is

[HelpfulWoman]

just end it. you're both fucking immature as shit

[NathanDavis]

you should start acting your age...

[slatyb]

End this abusive relationship.

[roy_ricky09]

You acted like a child only.