Guy didn’t touch me or hold my hands during a movie date, is this friendzoning?

[Anonymous]

Saw this guy Thursday to catch up and have sex, then he invited me to go watch Dune 2. Watched the movie and didn’t even touch me (boring) we both had plans after. Did he invite me to this movie for convenience?

[MrOracle]

It sounds to me that you need to communicate your desires to him, rather than sit passively when you want something. I suspect that he was trying to show you that he isn't just using you for sex, but also enjoys your company.

Just tell him how you feel and what you would prefer, and you will probably get it.

[Asker]

I didn’t specify but he asked me the following Sunday. Then I haven’t heard from him since. It’s been a week 😭 too scared to put my feelings out there bc all the signs are pointing to he isn’t interested

[MrOracle]

This is what happens when you do things backwards. You had sex with some guy having no idea how he feels about you. That makes zero sense. Sex is something you do AFTER a man has proven to you how he feels. And when you do it that way, you aren't in this position wondering how he feels or if he will call you. You are working against your own best interests.

If YOU treat sex as if it has no value, you can't be surprised when the guy treats it - and you - as if you have no value.

I know you have been taught to do this and to think this way by Feminism - in the form of the entire media and much of society - but for your own sake, open your eyes and your mind and realize that Feminism is trying to destroy the nuclear family, and they do this by convincing you (women) to give away sex, so you will get hurt and start hating men. Feminism does NOT have your best interests in mind.

It's your life and your choice, but look around you and see if the woman following Feminism are actually happy and satisfied, or are they largely miserable and alone.

[BarryLiverstone]

Dune 2 was a good movie. Well did you touch and kiss him?

[Asker]

No but he is like 36 and able I think? No? What do you think

[BarryLiverstone]

Think if he’s never kissed you before then he didn’t wanna start

[Asker]

We have kissed before that’s the thing, we sleep together eek

[BarryLiverstone]

Hmmm. Then there is more to this story than you are letting on. I can try to help but why wouldn’t he kiss you again?

[Asker]

I am not sure. We usually don’t kiss in public 🥲 but yea we had a fling last year and kind of started seeing each other again

[sheikalana]

Oh dear, I've been to the cinema with my Husband a thousand times and we never held hands LOL. We still got married. Is not friendzone.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it. Maybe he wanted to see Dune. Or maybe it was to make the girl he really wanted jealous.

[Asker]

This is what I’m thinking. I don't know about another person but I feel like he just didn’t want to go alone.

[Sameone]

Nup you are not in frands zone

Maybe he want you to feel comfortable

[laly520]

some take their time