Is it possible to be a pretty and amazing girl but guys never like you romantically? I’m told I’m pretty and everything but no one asks me out?

[Anonymous]

[Drew-1990]

Being pretty doesn't mean no one is interested in you. It's quite the opposite. There is a problem when you are pretty, a lot of men are intimidated or assume someone so pretty is taken. Some of us don't show any signs whatsoever that we are interested so much girls assume we have zero interest when in fact we are very interested into getting to know you.

[Mybeachlife8888]

So there’s more to being pretty. Much more. I feel like I’m a decent judge of character and would be honest if you wanted to chat with me for a little while and I could help you figure out what I think is getting in your way (if anything at all) in finding a date.

[Mybeachlife8888]

Why not dm?

[IslaTheWitch]

personality > appearance

even if you are beautiful but there is no chemistry and attraction, it won't work...

[dustybiker2]

So ask them out. You might end up waiting forever, when nobody said you had to.

[Autumnfall27]

Story of my life. We are super pretty and men are intimidated. We have to make ourselves available. Smile and be intentional. Help them approach us. Rbf will not get us anywhere. Good luck sis!!

[Asker]

I feel like I do all the things to be friendly and they’re still uninterested. Maybe I’m not enough.

[Nifrayu]

Or just approach them.

[Nifrayu]

It takes more than just good looks. In fact it's really not much of a factor for me. A woman can become stunningly beautiful, but if I don't click with her personality, then I won't be interested at all.

Also just because someone is interested in you doesn't mean that they will ask you out. Some people never ask anyone out because they prefer to be asked out.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Maybe guys make the assumption that because you are pretty, you are already spoken for?

[ProbablyClueless]

That's very possible. If you are an emotionally healthy person, ironically, you'll alienate a lot of romantic prospects.

[DarkWinterNights]

Of course. These days a record number of people are single. Either by choice or not. It’s a really rough time to date, regardless of how attractive you are.

[JayBones2469]

You must be amazingly pretty. Those are the girls nobody asked out. They think they already have a guy

[Asker]

A lot of guys talk to me but it doesn’t get much further than that. They don’t make a huge move like asking me out.

[LiamJHayden]

Possible, yes, but in all likelihood most guys either assume someone that awesome is taken or the guys are afraid to ask her out.

[MrDaveAPSI]

I've noticed that the hotter ones tend to be crazier

[Asker]

I am crazy for sure. Lol

[MrDaveAPSI]

I figured

[jahaims]

Nah, you hang around the wrong guys or aren't as wonderful as you think.

[dolemite58]

Could be something aside from your looks that maybe turns off guys I don't know

[Asker]

I’m Russian so I also sometimes don’t smile a lot. But I swear I’m happy on the inside lol

[dolemite58]

Resting bitch face is common among Russian women? I didn’t know that 😂

[Asker]

Bro yes 😂

[dolemite58]

I’d need more proof 😋

[gilmoregirls_456]

girl same!! all the time im being told that by men but i never go on dates either 😭

[Jay-_-]

Are you saying you're pretty 🧍🏽🫣

[noohair]

You might bbe sending out blocking vibes.

[war_daddy]

people lie