Dating
1 mo

Would you say it’s a red flag if somebody was excited about the prospect of you coming to impregnate them the first time you met?

on one hand, it would be very nice to live in Hawaii with somebody who makes in the upper $200,000 range. I have my own money but I don’t make anywhere near that. On the other hand, I realized that going through with this would be a profoundly awkward situation that I probably wouldn’t be happy with. she is 14 years older than me, already has a high school and college kid.. I’m sort of attracted, but I can’t say full on. this would be an incredibly weird situation in my family. And it’s kind of crazy to go stay with someone for a week or whatever to start with and have one of the shared goals be to knock her up… I also don’t know if I really wanna live there. It’s so far from everything and I still need to travel a lot…. but anyway, I still think it’s kind of strange. guess one of the main motivators for her would be very limited, biological clock time remaining, but it didn’t feel quite right to me. Even though certain elements of it were exciting. I video chatted with this person many times, they have a very large online footprint and paper trail. So they’re totally legit. Just other things.

Would you say it’s a red flag if somebody was excited about the prospect of you coming to impregnate them the first time you met?
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