So there was a guy from my old church who wanted to date me - very strong guy both physically and mentally - good looking - rich - had a nice car but there were a few red flags
1. we were hanging out with a mutual friend and I carried a 36 pack of water bottles down a flight of stairs while our mutual friend was in the kitchen cooking and the guy who liked me refused to even help me carry it despite being way taller and more muscular and big boned than me and it wasn’t even for me - it was for them
2. He said yes when I offered to show him photographs of my grades in university well everybody else said no since it’s my private life
3. he always said yes if I offered to buy him food which I did to repay him for giving me rides well everybody else said no most of the time out of their refusal to take advantage of me
4. he asked 3 people he drove to a bible study to give him $25 x 3 = $75 to cover the cost of the 60 minute car ride and refused to drive those who didn’t pay
5. After I told him I could not date him due to my boyfriend - he hated me and lied saying I complained about my problems all day long to get pity because I spent 20 seconds responding to somebody who asked about my family by saying I wasn’t close to them. He said I was morally defective because I said I had difficulty loving my mother after she tried to kill me when I was 9 even though I only complained about it for 4 minutes.
1. we were hanging out with a mutual friend and I carried a 36 pack of water bottles down a flight of stairs while our mutual friend was in the kitchen cooking and the guy who liked me refused to even help me carry it despite being way taller and more muscular and big boned than me and it wasn’t even for me - it was for them
2. He said yes when I offered to show him photographs of my grades in university well everybody else said no since it’s my private life
3. he always said yes if I offered to buy him food which I did to repay him for giving me rides well everybody else said no most of the time out of their refusal to take advantage of me
4. he asked 3 people he drove to a bible study to give him $25 x 3 = $75 to cover the cost of the 60 minute car ride and refused to drive those who didn’t pay
5. After I told him I could not date him due to my boyfriend - he hated me and lied saying I complained about my problems all day long to get pity because I spent 20 seconds responding to somebody who asked about my family by saying I wasn’t close to them. He said I was morally defective because I said I had difficulty loving my mother after she tried to kill me when I was 9 even though I only complained about it for 4 minutes.
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