It happens for aot of people but definitely not everyone. It can definitely be true. I'm not sure that would ever work with me because vast majority of the girls I ever see are family, or in a relationship.
Yes I do because I found a partner in someone who's been one of my best friends since middle school and I never would've expected him to have the same feelings for me because I always thought we were way too deep in the friend zone to ever be anything more than just friends
How is that possibly true when, even though I am not looking, still gotta put that out there because everyone has to assume everyone is looking for a relationship, after 9 straight years of not looking and no one has shown up?
@SolitarySolace if you thecsame and effect is the same for 9 years, maybe it's time to change something? You can't expect the change of the output if input stays the same
@SolitarySolace, it's called creating the opportunity. There is also a saying that there is nothing for free. So, put some effort into being the best version of yourself.
You expect those who feel they were wronged to not whine about it? 🤣 women do it all the time. Is it because I’m a man? I’m not supposed to whine about the issues I face?
I whine because women have too much power today. Men are always at fault for everything. They number of times a man is cheated on he is told it’s because of his own choices. When a woman is cheated on she’s told that he was a prick. Women have become far too condescending and entitled and men like me are just supposed to accept them and love them that is what I’m whining about and if it’s wrong to whine about that as a man I honestly couldn’t care less that’s just perpetuating what I’m already whining about
@SolitarySolace you are supposed to accept and love only the person you accept and love. And you know no one can force you to do it differently. It's our choice who we see attractive and whom do we love. So I don't really understand what you wrote here. No one puts the barrel to your temple and says - you have to love this person...
You’re right, no one is putting a gun to my head and telling me to love someone. I’m just attacked constantly for preferring to be single because that must mean I hate women. It must mean I choose the wrong ones because yeah I used to have relationships. I was unhappy in all of them and decided I wanted no more. Someone asking me why you been single for so long I tell them why and I’m immediately the bad guy.
@SolitarySolace lmao... and you value the opinion of others so much? we have many singles here on g@g, and they manage the opinions of others... by ignoring them or using humor to close the mouths of other people. Use some tested and working strategies and live your life as you please
What’s wrong with taking in opinions? Isn’t that what this app is for? Just “lmao” and ridicule me more why don’t you? 🙂 makes me feel great. You’re such a bitch
Lol, no. Been single for 9 years. Haven’t wanted a partner and so haven’t expected to find one and wouldn’t you know it one hasn’t come up 🤣 more wishful thinking for those who are hopeless romantics.
Last time I did any of that I was served an ex parte ppo, had to avoid entire parts of tiny campus until the court hearing where an I could do was have the ex parte ppo changed to a civil temporary restraining order and drop out of school. Now I can't get a job higher than retail all because of a woman.
So the 4 cheaters I had relationships with don't count? The woman that used me for my money who wasn't even my girlfriend doesn't doubt either? Seems like the more I tried to find a quote on quote "good woman" they all end up the same. They always add something to the list that groups them together. Sorry but it's true and just because you're a woman and don't want to believe it doesn't make it any less true
To me they absolutely count but not that you'd know that you aren't the one dating and having relationships with women. At least you're not the one who used to date and have relationships with women. I quit 9 years ago and I'm happier than I was when involving myself with women. Avoiding them has changed my life for the better
@SolitarySolace just like there are plenty bad examples out there, there are many good examples too. But you don't want to go that far and search for it, because you don't want to see that side of the truth, that there are good people who happen to be women.
@SolitarySolace That you should do proper research before stating something to be the truth. You've only been reflecting on the women you dated with and now even though every individual has their own personality, suddenly all women are bad. What I meant by searching is that you just went up and searched for bad examples of dating sucking, the bad example of women. That's only looking for half of the truth. The only 'risk' is enlightening yourself more. Learning that not everyone is the same.
You're implying that relationships are a good thing. Being a woman you probably believe relationships are a good thing. I being a man, don't consider relationships to be good things.
@SolitarySolace I am :/ it makes me sad to see someone like this. There was someone here who also had some strong views and no matter what good things happened, he pushed it all away. You say you're happy, good on you. But he wasn't. It makes me sad to see that mindset holding them back from letting in some good in their life.
I already told you every time I tried to find good people they proved that they weren't. You develop an understanding of the world because of that. An individual is only as good as their experiences on this earth. Mine have all been shit when involved with women.
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