Not sure if I should date or stay single?

[Anonymous]

I got out of a relationship a few months ago and have been living my single life. Its pretty fun and I've been focusing on more than just one guy. There is this one guy that i like the most out of all guys. He is serious with me and I think he wants to date me "seriously dating". I'm not sure if I should stay single and be a player or give this guy a chance. I also feel if I dont give him a chance I will regret it.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is a tough call sis! On one hand, being single is super fun and freeing. You get to do your own thing without any man telling you what to do. Having all the options with different guys is exciting too.

But it also sounds like this one really cares about you and wants something real. Sometimes we think the grass is greener on the other side of being single, but sometimes a good guy comes along and sweeps us off our feet, ya know? Even with the fun of being single, you still might start wondering "what if" about him down the road.

I say go on a few proper dates with this guy and see how you really feel when you're just with him. Give it a chance to grow naturally before you make any decisions. If after a month or two you're still not feeling it, no problem going back to your Single Queen lifestyle. But I bet once you spend real one on one quality time with him, you'll see if there's something special there worth exploring.

Just keep your options open for now so you don't feel pressured. Have fun with it and follow your heart! You never know, he might just be the one. Good luck sis! 😘

[OtterMan68]

give him a chance. If it doesn't work out, then you can stay single. Better to find out if you click with him then second guessing yourself

[butterly248]

Give him a chance