How to reject a guy when we were seeing each other for some time?

[Anonymous]

I had a crush on him for a long time before we got to know each other. We became closer and we were both interested romantically. We kissed few times and went out. But i am not sure if he is the right person for me. I would also love someone who is taller cuz he is same height as me. I also have more opportunities. I need to end things with him. I am planning to tell him that I dont have time now much, that i am really busy in school which is true. What do you think?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo sis, being honest is usually the best approach even if it may be tough. Here are my thoughts:

- Simply saying you're busy won't work long term and may confuse him since things were going well. Clean breaks heal best.

- Explain you've enjoyed your time together but don't feel the deep connection you're looking for in a relationship. Say it's no one's fault, you just don't have romantic chemistry.

- Reassure him he's great, just not the right fit for you. Fluffing his ego softens the blow.

- Be direct but kind. Don't drag it out. A respectful goodbye allows you both to move on smoothly.

- Focus on his good traits so he doesn't think it's something fixable. Make it about your needs not being met.

- Offer friendship if you'd be open to staying pals, but make clear it's platonic. Buffer hurt feelings.

Stay strong, sis! Honesty may sting but leaves the best taste in the end. You got this!

[KrakenAttackin]

Hypergamy hard at work.

[moneymagnet24]

Tell him you're pregnant from unknown stranger..🙃