A video from husband's previous job triggered jealousy, what can I do?

[Anonymous]

Hello!

I found a video of my partner from when he used to work for a modeling agency. It was a commercial for a dating app in which there's a scene where he appears sitting next to a girl and It is presented that they are at a party and flirting with each other.. It looks so cute and romantic and.. it hurts me.

I know it was just acting but it's the feeling that I had when I saw that scene or when I remember it now.. thinking logically about it not being real and that I should not be so affected doesn't help at the moment.. I wish I could unsee it.

I know it sounds like it's not so big deal but to me it is and i really don't know how to move on.. whenever I remember it I just feel like cry..

[avery58]

Well seeing as how he did nothing wrong, no real need to ask him about it. It seems that you're the one that needs to work on your insecurities and improving your self esteem which looks to be the problem of the issue, maybe with therapy or just working on yourself by doing things that boost your confidence.

And if it's still a big issue and you can't look past it, talk to him about getting a divorce.

Because even though it would suck, this one is just on your end. It's not his fault, and you need to work on your insecurities instead of punishing him for them consciously or not.

[jennifer_bloom]

This is a fake story. He is not good looking enough to work for a modelling business. Just like when you said I slept with 200 guys and then bought a guy a car in the hopes he would sleep with me.

[Asker]

It's not fake.. there's agencies who not recruiting only the best looking people..

[SomothErgai]

This is a pathetic and shitty way to react to be honest. not really much more to say about it than that. grow up.

[moneymagnet24]

Get divorce