Girls, so I asked the girl i'm speaking to if she wanted us to get to know eachother better and she said yes?

[Scarp0002]

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+1 y

However she never starts a convo... does it mean anything should I keep trying?

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+1 y

For the record. I always start the convos and I have asked qs about herself and her interest... that's why I made thus question cuz she doesn't start convos and hardly asks about my self

[SueShe]

Most likely, your definition and hers about the term "get to know each other" is on the opposite spectrum.

I presume that your definition would be "when can I get into your pants" while hers is more like "okay but let's keep this on a strictly platonic level".

Since you are the one that definitely wants something deeper, so to speak, then it should also be you that starts the "get to know each other better" process. She is only going to answer and since she is not the one suggesting that process, it is up to you to initiate the conversation.

She is perfectly aware of what you are aiming at and where YOU would like it to go...

[JustAGirll55]

She said she will be accepting your advances to get closer to her and yet you made none... that is what I am reading. You want to get to know her so you should be getting her out of her shell slowly, and when she trusts your interest in her, she will reach out to you too and it will be mutual. That is how it goes for me usually.

I mean if a guy asked to get to know me but then cut off contact, I would think he changed his mind.

[Scarp0002]

I never said I cut off contact? Where you getting that from lol, I legit talk and ask open ended questions to her...
And where did u get the part where you said "yet you made none"... she's the one that's never started a conversation even tough I always start it and I'm being geniuine

[JustAGirll55]

Oh sorry then it seems I misunderstood. It is possible then that she doesn't open up easily or she might be losing interest. As long as she doesn't ghost you or take too long to respond, you're good to go though. But I suggest you try to open up deeper questions because if you keep scratching at the surface, it might get exhausting for her too.

[Nikki1989]

OK and so, what are you going to do about it?

[Scarp0002]

This is why I asked lol. I always start the convos and always ask her questions about her interests and herself...

[Abbycado]

Yeah, and?

[Scarp0002]

Wdym ye and? I said what I said, that's why I'm looking for advice from girls... in my opinion if she really was interested she'd start the conversations like I do and also ask questions about me without me having to ask them... it's only fair that it's both ways