Most likely, your definition and hers about the term "get to know each other" is on the opposite spectrum.
I presume that your definition would be "when can I get into your pants" while hers is more like "okay but let's keep this on a strictly platonic level".
Since you are the one that definitely wants something deeper, so to speak, then it should also be you that starts the "get to know each other better" process. She is only going to answer and since she is not the one suggesting that process, it is up to you to initiate the conversation.
She is perfectly aware of what you are aiming at and where YOU would like it to go...
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She said she will be accepting your advances to get closer to her and yet you made none... that is what I am reading. You want to get to know her so you should be getting her out of her shell slowly, and when she trusts your interest in her, she will reach out to you too and it will be mutual. That is how it goes for me usually.
I mean if a guy asked to get to know me but then cut off contact, I would think he changed his mind.
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OK and so, what are you going to do about it?
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