Ladies, what keeps you to stay with your SO?

[scott04sa22]

My ex-girlfriend number 2 started dating someone behind my back. She moved from me to him. I'm not asking how to get my ex-girlfriend back. How do I keep a girl to stay with me than move to someone else unknowingly like my ex-girlfriend did. I know it's the women choose on if she wants to stay with her SO or not.

[SallyTho87]

Short answer- You can't make anyone stay. You could be doing the absolute best, being a supportive, caring, loving partner toward a person, and no matter what good of job you're doing, if THEY choose to cheat, for whatever reason, that is on THEM. NOT YOU.
Meaning, Your ex clearly didn't WANT to stick around for the long haul. It could be due to so many issues (maybe lack of connection, no communication, lack of time together, etc.) not sure what your relationshp involved, but just because YOU are a committed partner, doesn't equal THEY will be committed to you.

If they WANT to give that effort, time, commitment, they WILL.

Ps. I'm sorry you had to deal with that BS. Hope you find someone more willing to be your partner, who sticks with you for the long run.

[scott04sa22]

Thank you for answering 🥹