Guys, how would you like a woman to offer to split or pay a tab on a date, after you've paid the first? (Page 2)

[JacobJordan]

I expect her to shut up when it comes to pay. If I asked I pay if she asked she pays.

[blondfrog]

Why are only men allowed to answer this question?

[StarsInTheEyes]

Because I wanted to know how guys think of women offering to split or pay, I would need to ask men, right?

I'm not going to ask women about that. We women aren't men and don't know what men think 🤷🏻‍♀️

If I want to know what men think, I need to ask men.

[Revolutioner_83]

it is not for me to split. I pay the first and if the relationship continues, sometimes I pay and sometimes her but are paid fully not splitting.

[moneymagnet24]

I'm old school i always pay bills on every date i don't let girl pay even a penny

[StarsInTheEyes]

So would you prefer a woman to not say anything or offer at all to split the tabs?

[moneymagnet24]

Just enjoy date don't bother about bills i prefer not say anything

[itsclearlynicholas]

@moneymagner24 does the amount in those huge wine glasses see avatar of yours, set you back lots? Money 🤑💰 sir

[itsclearlynicholas]

@moneymagnet24 dang, typo, sigh. I ruined my post

[Nifrayu]

I wouldn't pay for the first one. I wouldn't be on the date if she wasn't paying.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't offer a woman to pay for anything, every date I'd take her to I'd pay for it every time, a woman shouldn't have to pay for a date, that's a man's job.

[Jamie05rhs]

You traditionalists just make life hard for yourselves for no reason whatsoever. If everyone just paid for their own shit, then this wouldn't even be a question.

[StarsInTheEyes]

That's why I asked if guys mind when a woman offer the option of splitting. Isn't splitting the same as "paying for their own shit," as I quoted from your words?

[CriticalCatDad]

I don't bother. Women wouldn't do it. They're selfish and condescending

[StarsInTheEyes]

And what do you think is the reason I asked my question? I wanted to know how to word my sentences when I went to pay while on dates with guys.

[Emanon25]

No I don’t like it.

[Djaay]

No...