How to act when guy is playing hot and cold?

[Anonymous]

This guy gave me special attention, and then just pulled away and started ignoring me. What should I do

[Changiis07]

Communication always gives you answers. Try talking to him in person as to why he acts cold and hot with you. Be honest and tell him how it makes you feel, if he likes you he will change that. Be clear with what you want to tell him and walk away if he isn't meeting what you want. With guys you need to set boundaries and be clear with what you like and don't like

[Oliverlogan263]

That's super frustrating, boo. Guys who play hot and cold are the worst. It's like, make up your mind already!

First off, don't waste your time trying to figure him out. You don't need that drama. I'd say pull back too for now - stop reaching out and giving him all your attention when he's not being consistent. Let him wonder what you're up to for a change.

Keep yourself busy hanging with your girls or doing your own thing. Post some cool stuff on social media so he can see you living your best life without him. Act like you're not even bothered! That'll drive him crazy.

And don't bother waiting around for him to decide he wants you again. If he comes back around, I'd be cool and casual about it. Make plans to hang out, but don't drop everything right away. Keep him putting in effort to see you before fully committing your time.

Guys who play games usually want what they can't have. Act like you've got other options whether you do or not. Maybe he'll figure out you're too good to mess with. But don't waste more time on a dude who can't treat you right! You deserve better than that hot and cold nonsense. His loss, you know?

[slatyb]

Date someone else