I mean when the guy is past the age of 30. We are know the real reason why some women have a problem with it and we cannot have one rule for women and another rule for men. Either we have personal choice for both genders or we not.
maybe its just me but society has pretty much ok'd every other previously questionable dating scenario ( queer , trans , black/white , inter racial , senior , widowed )
but for some reason the though of a 30 something guy dating an 18 year old still bothers a lot of people , everything else is ok now but not this even from the people who say love is love. and you should be able to love who you love.
Bunch of hypocrites usually feminists who promote all the others and bang on about their personal choice which is what inspired this question.
i know this girl here who is like that , lesbian , ok with all the other scenarios but if someone like me wanted to date younger she'd take issue with that despite claiming everyone should be able to love who they love
and women generally have most power in a relationship so the concept an older guy is taking advantage of a younger women by dating her doesn't add up either if she's fully consenting to it , women always have a lot of say and power when dating i don't see that altering much at all even with a big age diff
I come across them all the time mate
Probably because most eighteen-year-olds are immature and can be used by the elder partner.(Of course, that can also happen with agemates.)
@handsomelad70 usually they use me for free drinks at the bar , the other night was this girls birthday ( 20 i think ) so i bought her a shot but she also though i should buy her 2 girlfriend's a shot to so bill went way up
You do not want to allow them to do that. I never let women use me like that
well i wanted to do a shot with them so it was like one of those moments , i'm not even sure who asked first it all happened so quickly at the bar , if i asked her or if she asked me. i've bought shots/drinks for this girl and her girlfriend's before
lots of women be making rules for men whenever it suits them
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Iâm really confused by this question because one has to do with age and the other behavior, which arenât really related to one another. How do we define what a âbad guyâ is? Wouldnât it be better to protect women from bad guys by forbidding bad guys to date them? If a 30 year old wants to date an 18 year old, okay. But if that 30 year old turns out to be abusive, then what? Is the 18 year old forbidden from dating him, or will he be forbidden from dating other 18 year olds?
u You don't make the rules and you don't enforce the rules. You have an opinion but you are 1 out of 7,900,000,000 people on the planet, so your opinion doesn't mean much (and neither does mine.)
You can complain about reality or you can play the cards you were dealt. That's your decision.
Neither do the women complaining about it
Women complain. So what?
The men can as well old timer
People should be free to do whatever they want, so long as it's not harmful, not illegal, and always with consent.
In the realm of romantic rendezvous, where rules are as rigid as a certain rapturous rod, one must consider the equitable distribution of erotic entanglements.
If the mature male, a "Magnificent Masturbatory Monster," is to be muzzled from mingling with the youthful vixen, freshly blossomed at 18 summers, then by the same stroke of sensual justice, the "Bewitching Bulbous Beast" shall be barred from the embrace of the bad boy, that "Charming Clitoral Cane Collector."
For it is only equitable, my curious companion, that if the "Pulsating Penile Paragon" is prohibited from partaking in the pleasures of the tender flower, then the "Enchanting Erectile Emblem" must also abstain from the arms of the rebellious rogue.
Let us not discriminate, dear anonymous admirer, in this dance of desire. If the "Spectacular Scrotal Serpent" is to be shackled by societal standards, then so too must the "Thrilling Tangled Tushy Tube Twister" be constrained in her quest for the wayward wanderer.
In this game of amorous antics, fairness is the name of the game. The "Heavenly Hirsuten Horn" and the "Ravishing Rectum Repercussor" alike shall either be free to forge their own paths, or together be bound by the chains of convention.
Thus, my mischievous mate, the choice is clear as a crystal phallus. Either we unleash the "Uncontainable Urinary Urge Organizer" and the "Fabulous Foreskin Finagler" to explore their erotic exploits without restraint, or we tether them both to the traditional norms of courtship.
So, let the "Ecstatic Ejaculation Ejector" and the "Irresistible Intromittent Instrument" sing in harmonious unison, for they shall either revel in their liberated longings or resign themselves to the rules of the romantic realm, together, as one.
In English please
I think people should do as they please, so long as itâs legal and consensual. I try my best not to feel creeped out by my greying 45 year old friend hitting on teenagers. I donât feel jealous personally that some men want to hit on women young enough to be their daughters. It grosses me out. Like it grosses me out when guys that look like my dad hit on me on Facebook. Itâs just gross. Thereâs this saying âIgnorance is bliss.â So clearly these dirty old men see something different than what everyone else sees when they look in the mirror at themselves. Women donât generally think like men, where theyâre doing the competitiveness. We usually prefer men our own age or older.
Yes usually older men, there is nothing wrong with it though. I agree with most of what you say which is rare for me but it is not gross, it is to do with biology.
Weâll have to agree to disagree about it being gross
I think any kind of relationship between consenting adults is their business and no one else's. If they make that choice who am I to question it?
It's also up to people if they want to be critical of a certain types of relationships. That's their business and their right too.
And it's also up to people if they want to be critical of people who are critical of other peoples' relationships.
Freedom of thought and opinion is one of the most basic human rights and maybe the only right on which there should be no restrictions whatsoever.
I've thought about this too and you gotta figure as a guy it's best just not to be a cock block.
Those women are a certain type anyway and you're probably better off without them.
Yes you are right, they are feminists. And i love that term cock block.
Who said that? From what I see most of the time, the ones who are judged because they are past 30 are women. Not men. 🙃
Yes that is correct and it is mostly the women who have a problem with older men going for younger women. No prizes for guessing why they have a problem.
LOL. Go out with whoever you want and makes you happy.
Yes i will, it is just the ihypocrisy im calling out.
Yes i will, it is just the feminist hypocrisy im calling out
Nobody is stopping y'all, y'all are allowed to do that lol people just judge your for it is all.
What does one thing have to do with the other? I don't understand this question.
@sheikalana Yeah, people are free to make bad choices.
@KrakenAttackin exactly.
So we as men in our mid 30s can have sex with 18 year old women
As per what I know an 18 year old is no longer a minor.
@sheikalana Exactly
Don't be daft, that is not how relationships work.
You seem intent on comparing a hairy biker beating his girlfriend with a gold digger poisoning her elderly groom. While both are abuse by adults, they are not comparable.
Never answered the question
If you're an adult, you can date whoever the hell you want. If you're worried about what people think about who you date, that's on you.
What is the "real reason" why some women have a problem with it?
And why would some women having a problem with it mean it shouldn't be allowed?
It is allowed an is perfectly fine and they do it because they are either feminazis or bitter women who have hit the wall.
Legal adults can make whatever choices they want, even if they are bad ones.
What on Earth are you trying to ask? Your question makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. This is a mess lol.
You are only 13 so that figures
You comparing apples and Toyotas. If it's safe, legal and consensual then you can pursue it. So yes, it's fine.
What do you mean "not allowed"? Go right ahead if you want to, no one will stop you.
I believe men should be able to go out with any women regardless of age as long as they were of legal age.
@mobiusforniner Thank you for the Like
who is not allowing it? It's legal. May be frowned upon, but it's allowed.
wtf logic is that? you should say women in their 30s shouldn't date 18 year olds and i'd agree, not whatever insecure take this is that a person can't date a 'bad' person, what does that even mean?
People in their 30 can and should date 18 year old and that is what i am doing. But women should not date men that commit violent crimes
m 36 and me fucking 18 year olds is perfectly fine, there is nothing disgusting about it. This is just feminist nonsense, we have age of consent for a reason. You could raise it to 21 and then it would be disgusting to fuck a 22 year old. So what then? Raise it again and then again. It is extremist. And by the way here in the UK the age of consent is 16 and it is lower across Europe
@TeraGER This is the usual argument those that against it. Casual sex is just that
If you are rich and famous you can be 60 and date a 18 years old and no one blinks an eye.
a predatory age difference does not equate to dating a 'bad boy' 😀 you're not making sense
It is not predatory and that is final. the age of consent is even lower then 18 across Europe. This is just feminist brainwashing. And im talking about women who date violent men. they are as bad a paedos. You feminists are just making this up to suit yourselves as usual. You can have your persobal choice but you will always find ways to try and restrict mens choices
Don't care. Under-18's should NEVER be s*xually involved with adults.
@handsomelad70 I do not care what you think, the law in Europe applies. You are not under the USAs dictatorship
You are not taking rights away that is correct, but nothing else you have said is correct. 18 year old women fucking me is not disgusting and i remove any comment where you say that it is. You have a couple of screws missing to think what you think. This is just feminist dictating. You are not a kid you are a grown adult and will be treated and perceived as such, if you are saying that you are not, then you should not be allowed to vote, smoke, drink, drive, sue or own a house.
America is not a dictatorship... YET !!!
Wow, guys! Get this! The old man is removing every comment from an 18 year old saying his behaviour is gross!
It's amazing how you are physically allergic to the point đ
I am not an old man, grow up and act your age. My behaviour is not gross, it is very acceptable and very nice.
Very nice? To whom? The girls who still have school uniform in their closets?
Some women keep their uniform in their closet well into adulthood, should i not have sex with them either
No i am not and i will be removing this comment for being offensive, you have been brainwashed by feminists
Okay, bestie. You do you.
âBad Boyâ is subjective.
Whatâs that got to do with age?
I donât see the connection.
Here comes another one who has hit the wall, women going out with men who are violent are worse then anyone else on the planet. There is nothing wrong with us going with 18 year olds and whats not we will
âHere comes another one who has hit the wall,â
Yup. A big wall of stupid when I came across this question.
I dgaf who you want to date. If youâre gonna stick your dick in a child, just keep it to the lawful side, would ya?
But again, the term âbad boyâ is subjective.
So whose definition should we use when we designate these guys off limits?
I bet itâs yours
18 is the legal age of consent in the USA which is where you probably are and it is lower throughout Europe. It is 16 here in the UK
So you can dick them before they are out of high school.
Lucky you
There is no such thing as high school here in the UK.
As long as you yet them before their brains are fully developed, you're in the clear.
Go get âem tiger.
Funny how you are copying another user commenting on this and at the same time. And where did i see that tiger comment before. The only reason why i want them at that age is because they are hotter of course
âFunny how you are copying another userâŚâ
Am I? Iâm not reading down thread, but Iâll take your word for it.
âbecause they are hotterâ
Nah! Itâs more a matter of you looking for a mental equivalent.
Get 'em young and raise âem right. đ
I think you have two accounts, it is because they are hotter. Not my fault that your best years are past you
@Apple1996 This nonsense again. No women peak at 23, you are deluded and strange in your thinking really. Science proves otherwise.
@Apple1996 Yes your parallel universe science maybe
But we as older men ARE allowed to get with 18 year old women.
All women are whore and all men are gigolo.
Both are setting themselves up for disappointment
Sorry, I missed the law about age limits on dating.
Under-eighteen females are MINORS unable to legally consent to s*x;a bad boy can change as he ages and matures. ( SOME bad boys mature into good men.)
I am not referring to under 18s but i am aware the you are white knight. No women should be going with a guy who is violent, it is worse then going with a paedophile
I WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree.(I'm a BLACK knight.)
What do you mean bad guys? Lol
Guys who commit violent crime
!8 year old are not children.
They are adults, there is no borderline about it.
@TeraGER Yes it is a fact
@apple1996 So what, it is not our fault that modern adults are mollycoddled these days. Plenty of people in their later years are not good with money. That has got nothing to do with it.
Your brain does not exist
Nope 18 is when you are a adult
None fo your kids have got to that age yet, and you have no education.
Stop making up lies @apple1996. I cannot allow you to tell lies
@Apple1996 yes but still an adult
@apple1996 They develop into adults during their teenage years. Jesus! You need to go back to school and learn biology, lol.
@apple1996 you are clearly thinking of yourself here. Your brain has still not developed yet. You are wrong about Autism of course.
@Apple1996 it's your opinion that they are children but officially they are considered adults.
@apple1996 It has not and their laws in place to protect the mentally disabled, someone needs to speak to your husband because it looks like he has breached that law.
@Apple1996 Not true. As you said legally they are adults because they are adults. If the law says they are adults, and they have every right as other adults do, they ARE adults. That's a fact.
What you think about their brain development is irrelevant and just your own thoughts.
If what you say is true, there would be age limitations. But it's OK for a person of any age to have sex with an 18 year old because they are old enough to know what they are doing.
@apple1996 He is a simp, a waste of a soldier
@apple1996 The age of consent allows anyone to have sex with them. Such stupidly
@TeraGER Looking at everything else she comes out with she hates men and just wants to control them. She would even divorce her husband for looking at a woman and does not think men should walk on the same sidewalk as women. I mean what country does she think she lives in.
@apple1996 if you say so, that may be the case in the USA but not here in the UK. My father was a soldier and my brother still is.
@apple1996 No one cares what you agree with, if i want to fuck a 18 year old woman i will and do. The age of consent says what it means. As soon as someone reaches 18 (lower across Europe) you are good to go and anyone can sail in you.
@apple1996 I ought to know what the laws are in the UK and it is not what you say it is on soldiers
@apple1996 i am using my brain and it says and it is right that i fuck 18 year old women.
@apple1996 Have you not heard of a will and inheritance. we also have the Armed Forces covenent which places responsibility on public sector services with regards to widows of soldiers.
@apple1996 I am not interested in what you say you found on Google, i live here and have family in the army so i know better.
All these are allowed though.
Who would u be agreeing this with lol
Eh? This doesn't make any sense to me.
To neither.
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