Why doesn't my man want me having male friends? (Page 2)

[mandyfire98]

He's insecure.

[MrOracle]

No, he just has standards and values. Perhaps you aren't used to being around men with those things.

[mandyfire98]

What are his values that say women shouldn't be friends with an entire gender? What "values" are those? What standards? You think it's acceptable that somebody just seriously can't be friends with anybody from the other gender? Literally half of the population of this planet?

That is fucking crazy talk and why don't you think women should have guy friends? Because they'll cheat on you with that guy? That's insecurity. Text book example.

[mandyfire98]

Completely ridiculous. Not all men think with their dicks constantly. This is borderline misandrist towards other men lol. Plenty of women have male friends that aren't out to have sex with them.

The "men and Women can't be friends" garbage is based on certain men, not even the majority, basically stating that they admit they only view women for sex and as sexual objects and nothing more.

So you've basically pulled the amazing double duty of being a misandrist and mysoginist all in one.

[MrOracle]

Women can be friends with men who are already in happy, healthy relationships, but SINGLE men, with only rare exceptions, always want to sleep with the women. If you don't believe that, you are very naive and don't understand how men work. But men definitely know how men work.

[mandyfire98]

Sounds like projection to me. Sounds like your own personal beliefs. That you view women only in a sexual way. So if you're around them then you are constantly wanting to have sex with them. They're only a sexual outlet for you apparently. So that's how you see women so "well all men are like me"

[mandyfire98]

Very disturbing outlook towards women in general.

[MrOracle]

You can attack me all you like, but I've been quite clear that this is how MEN - as in the vast majority of men - think and operate. I've been around thousands and thousands of different men over the last 40 years, men in different states and from different countries and from different cultures, and I've talked to these men and I've overheard their conversations. What I'm telling you is damn near universal.

Clearly, it's not what you WANT to believe, but that doesn't make it untrue. I said from the beginning that many women refuse to accept this truth, because it's inconvenient for them. Note that there are even other women on this thread who say the same thing - are THEY projecting too? Or are you just unable to confront an idea that challenges your own preconceived ideas?

[mandyfire98]

That's fine if you believe it, you believe what you want. I'm just telling you that if you can't be friends with a woman without trying to get in bed with them then you don't respect women. You only view women as sexual outlets for men and that's all. I'm not attacking you at all. I'm stating what's true. Reality. If you are that obsessed with sex and can't be around women without trying to bed them then you only see women as being for sex and nothing else.

It is what it is. But don't pretend it's natural. Don't pretend that it's normal to only view women for sex. Don't pretend you respect women and think of them on the same level of men. The main goal for you is sexual when it comes to women. And men like you wonder what women fight so hard for equality, maybe it's because men like you only view us as the equivalent to walking sex toys for you. It's literally what you are stating. That nen don't have the self control and emotional maturity to handle being around the opposite gender. Kinda seems like a huge design flaw and weakness in men if you ask me.

[Mettbltt]

he is right

[xPendragonx]

Men are controlling and toxic af and these replies prove it.

[Mettbltt]

don't think of it as toxic
Your boyfriend knows how men's minds work
But if you believe that your friend is absolutely trustworthy, introduce him to your boy friend.

[mickeysmonkey]

Insecure, jealous

[MasterKS]

Insecure asshole!