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I can’t move in with my man because his lazy buddy squats there?

I have an amazing man. He’s hard working, treats me very well and is overall great. My landlord is selling my house and I need to move in a few months. We’ve talked about me moving into his house, the only issue is he has a very lazy, bum-like friend “living” there.

I like this friend. He’s good company and a fun guy, but he seems completely incapable of cleaning up after himself. Even when he cleans up his own dishes, he’ll do it sloppily and leave a huge mess anyway. Don’t even get me started on the bathroom.

This guy is a low wage earner and only works a few days a week. When he’s not working he’s napping.
He sleeps on the basement couch and will occasionally throw my boyfriend a few hundred for rent every now and then, but overall, doesn’t pull his weight financially or around the house.

My boyfriend seems unbothered by this. How do I navigate this issue without seeming like I’m picking on this dude? He was “there first” and I don’t wanna be that bitchy girlfriend who ruins everything for his buddy. I love my man and want to live with him but I work full time and am not a maid. I don’t mind cleaning for my boyfriend cuz he works really hard, long hours, but I know I’ll develop a huge resentment toward this friend if I move in there.

There has been talk of him finding a place, but it’s been months and no effort made, plus, how can he ever afford to when he barely works?

anyway, how to I talk to my boyfriend about this? I don’t want to seem like I’m making him choose between us or for this friend to hate me, cuz they spend a lot of time together. Is there a way to fix this issue without buddy hating me?

I can’t move in with my man because his lazy buddy squats there?
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