I feel like most guys cheat. Is this true?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. It's a small minority. The vast majority of guys want a relationship with a FEMININE woman who will support him.

Most guys would rather have a supportive wife who is able to take what he earns/generates and create a home where their family can safely grow. We'd rather be able to say our wife is welcome to have a career if she chooses to, not that the only way to make ends meet is if she goes to work for a corporate slave driver at barely above minimum wage.

Most guys want to support a loving relationship with a wife we trust and value above anyone else because she is the most precious relationship in this world we have.

Feminist - more accurately misandrist - ideology has convinced women their ability to raise the next generation of children to be honest, hard working, productive members of society is somehow of less value than being a boss-bitch.

Here's a sad truth: guys are infinitely more likely to cheat on a boss-bitch than a homemaker. Why? Simple: most corporate climbing women behave like men. And most men have zero interest in maintaining a relationship with a man, and even less interest in fucking one. So when a girl who's interested in being a homemaker and who he doesn't feel like just wants to be the boss over him comes into his life, the boss-bitch woman has created the perfect conditions for him to say "fuck this" and leave for the soft, FEMININE, girl who just wants to make him a loving home and fuck his brains out.

Why's that a "sad truth"? Simple: he fell in love with you before you were a boss-bitch and you threw it away, and him with it.

Big-Joe · Accepted Answer

Statistically speaking 23% of men cheat. My opinion is that is woefully inaccurate and the guys who answered the statistical question lied. The truth is more like this: almost everyone (girls included) has cheated at 1 time or another. What stops this from happening is the realization that it hurt someone we truly cared about and we end up feeling ashamed for it. That is how we learn to not be a creep and stop cheating. The truth, in my opinion, is that if you truly love the person you are with the last thing you want to do is do something that would put that person's feelings at risk of being hurt and take the chance of losing them forever. I made this mistake when I was young and hurt someone I truly cared about as well as myself so for myself lesson learned. Now when I see ads for people who are trying to hook up on the side I get rather disgusted cuz I know it's just a matter of time til they get caught and my heart goes out for the people they're about to hurt. So in conclusion I think we all try it at least once. Those that continue to do so only care about themselves and have no true feelings for the people they cheat on.

Kelley1 · Accepted Answer

During the Stone Age, yesterday in evolutionary terms, so we still have our Stone Age brains, the men that impregnate the most women are our ancestors and we inherited our ancestors genes.

Therefore, given the opportunity with an attractive women, most men will cheat and they are more inclined to cheat then women. Obviously, the number of cheats are equal for men and women because men can't cheat unless the women are willing. Since women are not willing to cheat with lesser men, most men don't have the opportunity to cheat. Therefore, a few elite men cheat a lot so to keep the number of cheats balanced, most men don't cheat because they are the men women don't want and most women cheat a little.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I guess historically guys do tend to be the cheaters, however there are also so many cases of women cheating as well. We’re always hauled out as whores if we do also, which doesn’t happen to guys. Check out *The Scarlet Letter* for example… the Priest and the gal do it… there’s a baby… She’s forced to wear a letter A on her chest the rest of her life while the guy has women flinging themselves at him without any ramifications… UNTIL (drumroll… no spoilers… go read it). But this is a book they make American children read in middle school (or FM year high school)… WHY? Think about it…. Male cheating is normalized and female cheating is demonized.

Finchie40 · Answer

True , just like most girls’ cheat as well , if you don’t want to be cheated on , you are best to treat your partner the same way you want to be treated in return , understand you can’t always be right and they are wrong , wear his shoes the same way you want him wearing yours , when you learn to prioritize your partner , your partner will more than likely prioritize you in return , whatever you don’t want your partner doing to you? Needs to be the same thing you do for them , not the other way around. Learn to remove selfishness from yourself for your partner and your chances of getting cheated on will become a very slim chance

Summeroflove · Answer

No most dudes don’t cheat…. You seem to have a real hate for men. I’m sorry that you choose shitty men.

Why would a decent man want you? When you’re whoring around witn cheaters and degenerate men. Assaulting police officers and the list goes on. Have a deep hate for law enforcement.

I’m sorry. Decent men don’t want a woman like you

ManOnFire · Answer

No. Women actually cheat much more than men, and they're proud of it when they do it. If we believe that it is far easier for a woman to get sex or partners, then how is it possible that men cheat more than women?

There is a ton of female cheating that goes unreported or unnoticed. People just think men cheat more because those cases were exposed.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

I think that  people  with a lot of options has a greater proclivity to cheat, because people turn towards them naturally. They deal with greater temptations and fall in trapps like thinking  the grass is always greener  elsewhere when really it's mostly just simpler when we don't really know people for who they are, just who they want to show.  But most men don't have all that many options. A few men are real players, and some cohort think they don't cheat but then they get in a relationship and feel more secure, which makes them more attractive and then they experience more temptations than they are used to and really get their integrity tested.  Summary :  Most men  don't cheat, because they don't feel like they have options, they have to put in lots of efforts to get anyone.  But as soon as  they get some succsess they may very well cheat.  We aren't better at all, we just come at things from another angle. .. and I think this goes for lots of women aswell. I usually find that the most flirtatious, confident and upbeat women are the ones that are taken. Just like men, they are relaxed and don't realize that they feeling secure can look a lot like being flirty. Most are more attractive when taken and/or in a healthy relationship.  But I must also acknowlage that  I don't have a womans perspective  and how women behave or think,  generally ..  is very speculative from my part.

HighValue · Answer

No. Most women cheat, but most men do not cheat. Many women cheat, but are so used to unfaithful behavior that they often don't even consider their behavior as cheating. Things like posting provocative/revealing pictures online for attention, flirting with others, (especially girls night out behavior), making NEW opposite gender friends and always going to them when there is any disagreements in their relationships so the other guys can purposely sabotage their current relationship to hook up with her, etc.

Also, having worked in schools for 14 years where it is mostly women employees, from what I have learned and seen, around half of women working in the schools where I have worked cheat frequently. It is so common that they openly talk about their actions with co-workers with no shame and their behavior is supported by almost all other women working there.

by the way, anyone that stays friends with someone that they know cheats on their partner is supporting that behavior, so they should not complain if they ever get cheated on because that is the kind of behavior they support. Most women I have known in my lifetime have friends that are known cheaters and they stay friends with them because MANY women actually support cheating as long as it is the woman cheating. People, STOP supporting cheating behavior.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

I DON'T accept that belief. And I know men irl who have enough self-control.

This belief is the reason why many guys say "I'm a man so I will cheat.. blah blah.." and they don't take accountability for their mistakes! 🤷🏻‍♀️ Why? Because many of these women already accepted that "guys will cheat" and don't walk away when they encounter one.

Anonymous · Answer

No. The male experience is nowhere close to the female experience, where cheating is much easier and effortless.

You should not project the female dating experience onto men. That is a mistake. The average man is a lot more trustworthy than you think.

HawkPerception · Answer

This is approximate, but apparently 20% of men have cheated on their partners and 30% of women in 2023. Women are also much more likely to emotionally cheat than men accounting for 91% of women, whereas with men it's 77%.

You should focus less on men and start looking in the mirror.

I feel like most guys cheat. Is this true?

John86main · Answer

The interesting thing about this statement is a few things...

#1 Most men don't even have the opportunities NOR options to cheat, where as women have offers and the ability every day to do so

#2 Men get a bad wrap for it because TV shows and movies make it popular for the cheater to be the guy or the dawg to be the guy in shows and etc.. it's the popular thing where women, can innocently hide behind.

#3 Women are much MUCH more intelligent in keeping cheating under wraps and not getting caught. There have been women to go to their graves with the secret and their husbands and boyfriends never knew

#4 Watching this show on marriages woes, on amazon prime.. most of the affairs it looks like the wives are having behind the husband back...

So I say all of this to say that men could and one could make an argument that we should feel the same way about women.. but we don't. It's all individual based.

FreyaRed · Answer

There is some specific guy type who cheats and this type is really common. This type appears in all quality levels of physical appearance of men.
Even though optically I fit in their template, psychologically I'm too cynical and sarcastic for their generic BS and they can't handle it for too long.

ShadesVow · Answer

Very few men actually cheat. If you feel like most do then you are surrounding yourself with those types of men. Perhaps look inwards to change that because you are creating a self fulfilling prophecy. If you attract cheaters that is a sign you are doing something wrong.

just_a_potato · Answer

Men are likely the cheaters but that doesn't necessarily mean they  all  cheat. There's just a fuck ton of man on earth, more so than women. And men also tend to be the ones who can get away with it. But there are men out there who never even thought of cheating. It's not all of them.

idonotlikeyou · Answer

They think they run the world, know everything best, and can do whatever they want. Then, they're surprised when they have to face the consequences of their actions. It's a shame that so few men mature before they die.

Levin · Answer

Let me correct you. Most of the men you are attracting may well cheat. You need to find it where this wound stems from. And realise that your perceptions don't constitute any 'out there' reality.

Anonymous · Answer

Most? No. Most men won’t even have a girlfriend in their lifetime because a lot of women find them unattractive or they don’t have money to compensate for their lack of looks. Even the women who are in their league don’t want those men. The men who are cheating are usually the men who have options, but that few who do the cheating or are hooking up w all these same women are making every man look bad. So we all get lumped into one group of cheaters.

Meisdipa · Answer

Girls feel most guys cheat and boys feels most girls cheats. It's the internet that magnifies these things and make loyalty that many guys and girls have under the radar. My opinion

elizamichale1 · Answer

Generalising isn't really helpful to understand something tbh... to me both guys n girls cheat almost the same

Serkee · Answer

No. But a lot of women tend to go for cheaters, because cheaters have the confidence that they're attracted to.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most guys are cheaters, or have at least thought about it.  Note, I said most, not all.

MisterWack · Answer

As a guy I would never cheat. The fact of the matter is, cheating is an issue men & women & boys & girls go through everyday and it sucks. It truly fucking sucks.

EmmaMary · Answer

@brunettexoxo  If truth be known it's probably equivalent to the number of women who follow this disgusting trend.

Billlewis · Answer

Most guys *would* cheat, if the opportunity presented itself, but the odds of that happening are slim nowadays.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I have in the past when I was younger and stupid. Feel ashamed of my actions and haven't done it in years and never will again

Anonymous · Answer

No

If you started dating a Shy Guy do you think he would cheat, Of course not.

But you Girls don't want to date them so you end up with the Guys who are more likely to Cheat and then you complain and say that most Guys Cheat when there's a lot more Shy Guys out there that won't Cheat than there are Confident Guys who will Cheat.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Hell noooooooo. It's like saying most girls cheat, I think the bad ones just stick out. That being said as a former cheater, trust me most guys don't cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

most men don't even have the option to cheat

can an A-list celebrity man cheat? yes he can very likely do so

can the average Joe working at McDonald's cheat? only if he gets a girlfriend in the first place

Kaneki05 · Answer

Probably. It's a prone natural effect that one will be bias to having whether they like it or not.  Don't mean all men do though.

animalwithin · Answer

At this point, women are far more likely to cheat than men. You'd have to be delusional not to see that.

Dongie · Answer

What makes you say that? Have you dated 98% of us? The last statistics on cheats had women just shy of 25%. Men were a solid 20%. So women cheat at a 25% higher rate than men.

Apple1996 · Answer

99% of men cheat in some way. Either mentally, emotionally or physically

Unit1 · Answer

If you count watching porn as cheating, then its true. If you only see and chase after the top 10% of men, then its true.

Keyboardkat · Answer

I think you are hanging around the wrong kind of guys!

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Nah... Getting one woman is enough of a struggle for most guys. Getting two isn't normally very feasible.

nawtee_me · Answer

I have no idea, I can only say that I don’t. Right now there is no one to cheat on in my life but if there were then I would not….  what about you?

jahaims · Answer

Most people are trash and will do bad things if they don't have consequences. It's not related to gender

ticktds · Answer

Statistically, men only cheat slightly more than women, 25% vs 20%. Which in my opinion is still grossly high, but I guess at least it's not the majority.

andy530 · Answer

I think our perceptions are based on and biased by our own experiences. That said I think it really depends on the company you keep and the people around you that shape an opinion like this

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

Actually women are more likely to cheat, than men. Because men aren't as good at the cover up, as women are. So they're more scared of getting caught

DarkLegacy · Answer

It is not true but it is true that you cannot trust most women

Brady · Answer

The program Diary of an affair say's 60% of men n 40% of women hav extramarital affairs. The program Cheaters say's 40% of men n 25% of women cheat.

Ladsin2 · Answer

30% of men have had no sexual partners in the past year or are virgins. Most men don’t have the opportunity to cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

Most female cheating goes unreported. Females cheat their asses off!

Anonymous · Answer

It really depends on the caliber of guys you date. I suppose it's totally possible that you're drawn to serial cheaters. How would you describe the type of guy that turns you on?

pethouse · Answer

Only the really attractive ones and the really ugly ones. If I’m being honest I don't know how the really ugly ones did it.

dolemite58 · Answer

No I think women cheat way more often, they have way more opportunities to have sex than guys do.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Most don't but most definitely would if available to them.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Nope. Not even close.

Anonymous · Answer

If people have a "type", then they are going to find the same results.

Sweety_Torneeya · Answer

Yeah I was cheated by my lover. I see most of the men do cheatinf now a days.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

You only feel that way because you've never dated girls. If you do then you will know.

Enes38 · Answer

Unfortunately, these true statistics show this, but rest assured, there are also loyal men.

shortster · Answer

I think not, probably 30-40% do; but that isn't most.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel like most women are whores. Is this true?

Anonymous · Answer

Cheating isn't even an option for the majority of men.

justabuddy · Answer

Cheating seems to be all too common these days all the way around.

meepmeeperton · Answer

Source: it came to me in a dream.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I feel that most women cheat , is that true?

HelpfulWoman · Answer

then you'd be a dumbass.

spartan55 · Answer

Most of the guys you choose? Yes.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Most people in general cheat

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