Do girls know how to differentiate between serious guys and non serious guys for dating? Can you sense his intentions?

[Anonymous]

Yes I can. Explain in comments

No I can't. Explain in comments

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[smashleyy]

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t struggle with this. But one thing I’ve noticed that non committal guys have in common is they try to love bomb the fuck out of you in a the beginning, they say sweet nothings to get what they want. So any guy that comes off too strong too quickly is a no automatically for me. Men with pure intentions usually enjoy the slow and steady process of getting to know one another

[Asker]

I agree with you. I approached some girls slowly but they didn't accept my proposal to date. I had good intentions but they thought I wanted to sleep with them.

[Anonymous]

They can if they try. But to be honest most women do not bother. You read this time and time again on here when women post, "I'm approached by men but not the men I want". Most women today would rather entertain men who are NOT interested, will never be interested. So she ignores all the OBVIOUS signs telling her this. And then is later shocked when things do not work out.

In short it's half her using her feelings too much and her head not enough. And half simply not choosing men who even want or value her to begin with. This is why most women repeat the cycle of failure time and again.

[luvstoned4him]

I can but not earlier up because some guys have perfected the art of lying and pretending to be who you want them to be.

It's so important to go in with a clear head , no expectations and definitely without those rose colored glasses on

I eventually figure them out this because the actions start to go contrary to what their words said.

[DishLady]

Depends. Some guys are an open book, but others are shady for whatever reasons of their own and don’t make their intentions clear even when asked outright.

[Wolfsreign]

When I was young in my teenage years and early twenties I would say no. However now in my late 30s yes, it's something I think is gained through self love and life experiences.

[Nikki1989]

It becomes obvious rather quickly with most men. They are very transparent in that department.

[JSkye]

Women's intuition is a thing. Mine is really strong. I can generally tell right away.

[DizzyDesii]

Sadly i see it with some within a week and others within 3 months. Damn i hate wasting my time

[EmmaMary]

Thank goodness for women's intuition!