Do guys like competing with their girlfriend? What would you do if she won?

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Do guys like competing with your girlfriend? What would you do if she is a hard competitor? Would you give up or keep the fight going? And what if she's about to lose? Would you like it if she loses or help her to win?

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Competing as in a game? I like to win of course. And I suspect girls like their guy to beat them.

Somewhere in the female subconscious, if not conscious mind, girls want their guy to be better than they. After all they are the table and the main thing guys bring are to be better, more competent & capable than the girl.

It seems very necessary to girls to respect their man in a way that men just don't feel the need for (yeah we just need to like their tits legs etc etc). Inherently women put their lives in their man's hands more than men put their lives into their girl's hands, so I think their are good evolutionary reasons for this.

So you better demonstrate that superior competence and capability even when it is just a game. No man is going to like routinely losing to his girl.

A girlfriend wanted to play a childhood game she liked with me. She eagerly awaited its delivery and we had to play immediately it did. While a simple game there was an element of strategy in it.

She didn't win a round.

Whilst she was pissed off, she did have rueful, grudging respect that I was better and smarter than her.

So she won the real game in the end.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

Do guys like competing with your girlfriend?  Yes I personally like competing with my girlfriend in activities.  What would you do if she is a hard competitor?  Compete harder.  Would you give up or keep the fight going?  I’d give her a fair fight just as she would with me.  And what if she's about to lose?  I’d let her lose or let’s say it was a video game I’d help give her tips that she can utilize later as we play together or that she can use to win against our competition later.  How would you feel if you lost?  Same thing as her, congratulate her and not be a sore loser unless there was input lag or server crashed because those are unfair & everyone’s been through it one time or another (or maybe my connection is just really bad who knows)

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I’d it’s something like a puzzle or game that’s intellectually stimulating then it’s fun for both of you, but physically competing I don’t see b often btwn couples….

ChillNsweet32 · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't try to compete with a man physically lol

AviatorTom · Answer

Women always win... they never lose, even when they do. 😎

Shiprex · Answer

No BUT she does.
She is into cycling and I am not so we HAVE to do cycling activities and her insistence on the idea that she should be first is something to behold. There is this 90km mountain bike event that we both entered one year and I did no training while she had a regime and I came about 20 odd minutes ahead of her without much effort. SO the following year we had to do it again. This time I got the older, cheaper smaller and lighter bike that doesn't have all the gimmicks of her bike. SO we go around at separate start times and she's ahead. It's muddy, tough riding with people riding around obstacles missing the big mud puddles. I stopped and had snacks at every one of the half dozen food stops and she didn't knowing she was out to get a faster time than me and she did by about 4 minutes.
Can't be doing competing it's too draining with a competitor.

Blunky · Answer

I don't see the point. It's not like it's going to change how I approach the relationship, even if she wins. If she's so focused on competing that she brings it into the relationship just to feel good about winning something, then we aren't really dating. I view my relationships as a place to celebrate and revel in each others wins, not a place to gain them.

OneViewpoint · Answer

My ex couldn't possibly compete with me in any physical activity or sport. She isn't into any sort of physical activity whereas I'm very into running, mountain biking, swimming, lifting weights, tennis, football, backpacking, mountain climbing. But she loves board games and card games. She could compete there. And she did. Whoever won, there was a genuine "good game" from the loser. No big deal. LOL, there was no butthurt. It never got nasty.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

In video games yes, otherwise no.

I'd actually love to find a girlfriend to marry thats better than me at competitive gaming so I'm not bored as often.

If she won I'd rematch her, take a break, or play another game with her (same for if I won). It depends on how many matches we already played, but thats to avoid genre burnout, not do to winning or losing.

I don't let anyone win on purpose and I don't give up over a loss, just temporary genre fatigue.

Iron_Man · Answer

Everyone knows the average man can take a woman in arm wrestling so basically you let her win the same thing if you’re wrestling her, or boxing around with her she knows that you can beat her and you know that you can beat her so you just let her win

IslaTheWitch · Answer

my ex was saying "you are too smart for me" and then we always ended in bed :D

nothingtosee · Answer

I love doing it! Especially if the loser has to do something naughty, kinky or taboo for the winner. Even better if it's during a threesome, and the loser HAS to do something naughty, kinky or taboo for the winners.

beldath · Answer

I'm a competitive person by nature and would find that to be a turn on. If we're competing against each other I would do my best to win, but if I'm always winning, I'd let her win on occasion unless she specified not to take it easy on her ever.

itsannalee · Answer

My man and I work in the different field, so we don't compete to each other.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'd have to be in the mood for it. It's not really something I do all that much. Unless it's something like wrestling which I know 100% I will win easily.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

We only like it in extremely light, nonserious, playful circumstances. Otherwise, getting competitive with the women in your life is fucking awful 😂

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Hmmm I don't see the concept of competition happening often, it can be fun at times, but I'm a bigger fan of collaborative entertainment

lorenzomichael · Answer

Well, we turn the lights off in the house, blindfold ourselves and play naked hide and go seek and when we catch each other, it’s on but you can’t cheat. If you cheat it’s a lot less exciting. She’s has won more times than I have. But I don’t mind…

RingOfFire · Answer

Not in a relationship now but when I am I absolutely love competing with her in some kind of physical contest just to tease her and laugh! (in a nice way to make her laugh too)

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Only if it's really for fun.. Otherwise I'm not competing with her.. Although I wouldn't let her win..

exitseven · Answer

I always dated athletic girls and they could do some things better than I could. It never bothered me.

molonski2 · Answer

Letting someone win is pretty stupid , show her what it actually takes to win.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I compete in chess, but otherwise I just like to have fun and do not really care who "wins." And yes, I have lost to women in chess before. It isn't like Dina's a pushover.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Only in the bedroom lol 😂 😆 or the dance floor

DrPepper12 · Answer

No mercy. We said til death do us part and if that's what happens... Well one of us is a quitter!

fish5505_87 · Answer

I want a competitor, and if you are, there is no helping or losing to help the other. As long as this is done with good sportsman ship in mind!

robocop666 · Answer

yes this is why there is a style of sex worker called a session wrestler.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

No, that would come off as way too masculine to most men. The overwhelming majority of men want a feminine woman. We want someone who complements us, not someone who wants to compete with us.

Manuelwe · Answer

Yes I do. Makes me really horny and you women will give the best sex when upset a happy. To show why she is best fuck in town

Anonymous · Answer

I'll let her win when wrestling, if that means her hitting me in the nuts, so be it, she wins.

Anonymous · Answer

Competing at what? Being competitive in a romantic relationship sounds like a potentially bad idea.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Sometimes, but I'd feel weird if my broad out-wrestled me !!!

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't mind, I like dominant, sporty type of girls.

wkhan_87 · Answer

Competition in what context?  We don't have any same field

Anonymous · Answer

Tricky question, but I would never let her win so she gets better

LifeHitMeandRan · Answer

Guess it depends on the activity.

AllGoodNamesRGone · Answer

Wish to slide into dm...

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I go and cry in the bathroom like a baby.

Jay-_- · Answer

Competing how exactly?

NathanDavis · Answer

nonsense

PaleDale · Answer

If I competed with her she'd beat me 🥰

Jennz6 · Answer

Nope

austinbooth · Answer

Absolutly not

Anonymous · Answer

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