How do I tell him I’m a 20-year-old virgin without feeling ashamed?

[Anonymous]

A guy I’m friends with wants to be more than friends. We’ve only been friends for probably 3–4 weeks, and I do think he’s attractive. He’s older and more experienced, while I’m still a virgin because I had a controlling mom who wouldn’t let me date, even at my age. She tried to control and dictate everything I did. I moved away from her, and I’ve never kissed anyone or had sex. Now he’s asking what I’d be open to, and I’m not really sure because I’ve never done anything before. I feel really embarrassed and ashamed about being a virgin. Im 20 and he’s 26

[Adogdog]

You should be proud. I would like to find a girl like that!

[Asker]

It’s due to controlling mom it’s not a flex

[Adogdog]

Sorry to hear that, but a lot of guys would like a virgin girl. Care to answer my question on my profile?

[Adogdog]

And if you wanna chat, feel free to message me.

[Anonymous]

No reason to, guys love virgins

[Asker]

He said he don’t want a boring girl

[Opinion Owner]

Being a virgin doesn’t make you boring but he needs to know you are a virgin, definitely don’t hide things. Tell him what you are interested in trying for now though

[Asker]

Thank you so much

[Iron_Man]

You should be Honored

[Asker]

Honored with what?

[Iron_Man]

That you’re a virgin

[Asker]

What’s so honorable about it?

[DragonDan444]

Just be honest

[DragonDan444]

If he runs you know he isn’t right. I doubt it though

[DragonDan444]

Plus. If you’re not honest he may cross boundaries and not be aware of it

[Asker]

He said he doesn’t want a boring girl I have zero experience 😭

[DragonDan444]

Then asker. If all he values is sex. Being a boring girl has nothing to do with sex. A boring girl has no real personality

[Asker]

Thank you

[DragonDan444]

Absolutely. Trust me you don’t seem super boring

[Asker]

I am kinda boring