my story: learning to improve my social skills, conversational skills, self-esteem and confidence while enjoying connecting with strangers.
my sources of information: Dr. Jeremy Nicholson, ph.d., Dr. Edward Dryfus ph.d. , Acacia Parks, ph.d., etc. (all experts having dove into the realm of dating or mental health and giving advice based on research)
my problem: why is it that despite the fact that practitioners dispense advice and help on dating in light of their research, and still, dating advice is still regarded as strangely demeaning and unethical in the media and amongst very narrow minded individuals! just Bloody weird! I take my advice from books and people who did a lot of researcher; mental health practitioners genuinely interested on helping others and still, I'm regarded as the unethical jerk! WTF! I'm not even into the PUA stuff it"s bullsh*t! so why are my actions getting hell in collective thinking regardless of the fact I'm getting advice from decent, genuine practitioners who did their homework? I'm not a jerk! I'm not a bad-boy (despite my many piercings) and I've gotten more pleasure out of wanting to simply converse with a woman in a coffee shop (amazing fun actually!) than wanting to jump in the sack with her. last time I jumped in the sack with a friend, I was sad; didn't fit my emotional aspirations.
my hypothesis: I think that people get pissed at me for wanting to change my dating life because I don't fit the player douche bag stereotype. It's the same when racists get pissed when a black woman get's a job as an executive; it's because it doesn't fit the stereotype!
wake up people!
ideas are welcomed...
my sources of information: Dr. Jeremy Nicholson, ph.d., Dr. Edward Dryfus ph.d. , Acacia Parks, ph.d., etc. (all experts having dove into the realm of dating or mental health and giving advice based on research)
my problem: why is it that despite the fact that practitioners dispense advice and help on dating in light of their research, and still, dating advice is still regarded as strangely demeaning and unethical in the media and amongst very narrow minded individuals! just Bloody weird! I take my advice from books and people who did a lot of researcher; mental health practitioners genuinely interested on helping others and still, I'm regarded as the unethical jerk! WTF! I'm not even into the PUA stuff it"s bullsh*t! so why are my actions getting hell in collective thinking regardless of the fact I'm getting advice from decent, genuine practitioners who did their homework? I'm not a jerk! I'm not a bad-boy (despite my many piercings) and I've gotten more pleasure out of wanting to simply converse with a woman in a coffee shop (amazing fun actually!) than wanting to jump in the sack with her. last time I jumped in the sack with a friend, I was sad; didn't fit my emotional aspirations.
my hypothesis: I think that people get pissed at me for wanting to change my dating life because I don't fit the player douche bag stereotype. It's the same when racists get pissed when a black woman get's a job as an executive; it's because it doesn't fit the stereotype!
wake up people!
ideas are welcomed...
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