Yes. I'm (for the most part) a non smoker and generally don't find it attractive, but if I really like him I wouldn't let his smoking stop me from a relationship.
I appreciate your conviction but I doubt you would reject the only available woman on earth because she was a smoker. Your evolutionary fitness would kick in and she'd be irresistible
I couldn't date a cigarette smoker. The smoke and smell gives me headaches/runny nose, and generally makes me feel lousy until I leave the area and get some fresh air.
Yes, but I'd wish they'd quit. Not because I want to annoy them with health warnings and such, but because I'd really care. It's not a deal breaker however.
off the top of my head I picked B but I'm sure if I met the right girl I might be able to look past the fact she's a smoker.
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yes, I don't mind the smell, The only thing is I can't stand when someone doesn't take care of their health, then that person become a leech to me instead of someone who can help and support me in life/ a life partner.
do you know why people eat red meat (which leads to high cholesterol)? sun tan (biggest cause of cancer)? drive over the speed limit or text and drive (which exponentially increase risks for accidents)? drink alcohol? consume caffeine (substance most people in the world are addicted to)?
why people do thinks that are potentially dangerous are simple. the benefits in their mind outweigh the negatives ... just saying it shouldn't baffle you why people do things that are dangerous
Well I guess it doesn't baffle me I know why, like you say the benefits in their mind outweigh the negatives. But for some things smoking just one among them, I don't see any real benefits.
Personally I try and avoid bad risky decisions that have little or no benefit and generally like my women the same in that regard.
I voted B because I don't smoke socially at partiesanymore, and I presume the term "smoker" in this question means someone who smokes on a daily basis, which I believe will turn me off in a female.
As the other commenter said, it doesn't taste any different. There isn't even a hint. And I'm very sensitive to cigarette smoke, being asthmatic and what not.
Nothing is more disgustingly nasty as a f***ing cigarette smoker, we should just ban them from society I wanna go up and beat the sh*t out of those f***ed up people who smoke in public and hang out in front of stores like they think they are cool poisoning little kids walking but go kill yourself smokers!
But I do respect your answer 100% ... I thumbs down you only because I believe everyone has the right to do what they want. obviously second smoke is uncool and shouldn't be accepted but to an individual who wants a cigarette who am I to judge. Cholesterol kills, so does booze, guns, etc. So who am I to judge someone and their vice... I love a strong whiskey and I wouldn't want some temperance movement freak b*tchin at me for being a bad person. just my opinion
I don't have a bad opinion of you as long as your not one of those bastards standing in front of stores smoking or smoking around kids or in public basically being a f***ing plague on society then no.
Only reason that cigarettes aren't illegal Daph is the nasty f***ers in charge of the senate and a lot of people in politics are addicted to death sticks themselves, and the people who aren't addicted are receiving loads of money from cigarettes.
temperance is in regards to alcohol (like the prohibition movement). I don't smoke the question was just a general one. Cigs are legal all over the world for the same reason alcohol, guns, etc are legal. People have the personal freedom to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't infringe on the rights of others. so I agree smoking in public should probably be illegal but if someone wants to do it in private that is their natural right... question: are you without vice?
No if they want to do it in the privacy of their own home go ahead. Wasn't trying to yell or scold you, your a grown ass man but second hand smoke really elevates my temper I'm sorry.
no my question is about cigarettes. The question really isn't about me personally just general question. thanks for the apology, I was actually thinking the same thing that I don't need to get on my soapbox. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. and second hand smoke is gross, and irresponsible
The kill yourself smokers was a bit messed up if I might add, just have lost people because of them. And get really heated when I talk or think about them and I'm I don't really even have much of a temper except when that topic comes up lol.
they literally are killing themselves. Not fast enough though...
And I think smoking is not yet completely banned is because the cugarette industry is powerful. They pay good taxes, and if nobody smoked anymore, the cigarette industry would go bankrupt and that would be a huge loss to the government. Not to mention other industries related to smokers or smokign habit.
And I totally agree with you, smokers are f***ing ignorant. They do what they want without giving a sh*t who they're hurting
Sorry to say this Sparrow, but you're ignorance is astounding... You must not know anything about cigarettes, so don't answer a question that you are not educated about.
Haha! I'm not ignorant. I'm aware of what cigarettes are capable of doing to us. I didn't say they were healthy, haha! I just said making it a deal breaker and wanting to beat a smoker is an overreaction. And it is.
I think it's funny that someone who says "I wanna go up and beat the sh*t out of those f*cked up people who smoke in public," and "Nothing is more disgustingly nasty as a f*cking cigarette smoker," and "go kill yourself smokers," is unable to recognize that they're overreacting.
I guess you have no emotion, nothing rattles you like that? Those people have not a brain cell to think what they're doing to everyone around them. And what's worse, they don't care.
The world is better off without those people so good riddance.
"Get ignored little girl, don't bother responding smart ass."
you can't call someone ignorant and then resort to mysogyny (pot meet the black kettle). we all have triggers and clearly smoking is one for you; however, I think it's important to always ALWAYS be respectful and distance ourselves just enough from any issue so we try and listen, understand, and the reply appropriately
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Tried dating a smoker, and every 10-15 minutes he'd go off to smoke his precious cigarettes. It got old, fast.
what if they weren't a chain smoker like that guy clearly was?
I voted B. I have no interest in a guy who spends his money slowly killing himself. That's not very smart of him at all.
Yes. I'm (for the most part) a non smoker and generally don't find it attractive, but if I really like him I wouldn't let his smoking stop me from a relationship.
NEVER! Not if she was the last female on earth and the entire human species depended on me.
I appreciate your conviction but I doubt you would reject the only available woman on earth because she was a smoker. Your evolutionary fitness would kick in and she'd be irresistible
Lol haha, I like you -.- I would just give her my stuff.
My sperm of course I'm talking about.
just put it in a jar and leave it on her front porch? haha, that would be funny. a new turn on the idea of the "milkman"
HAHAHAHAHA Milkman that is gold lmfao! Ring ring hello '' Special delivery!''
I couldn't date a cigarette smoker. The smoke and smell gives me headaches/runny nose, and generally makes me feel lousy until I leave the area and get some fresh air.
Yes, but I'd wish they'd quit. Not because I want to annoy them with health warnings and such, but because I'd really care. It's not a deal breaker however.
I don't smoke. I used to. I don't mind if someone smokes around me.
I'd date a smoker, but I would want them to quit before I'd marry them, for health reasons.
off the top of my head I picked B but I'm sure if I met the right girl I might be able to look past the fact she's a smoker.
yes, I don't mind the smell, The only thing is I can't stand when someone doesn't take care of their health, then that person become a leech to me instead of someone who can help and support me in life/ a life partner.
Non smoker and won't date a smoker. I don't know why anyone would smoke it baffles me.
do you know why people eat red meat (which leads to high cholesterol)? sun tan (biggest cause of cancer)? drive over the speed limit or text and drive (which exponentially increase risks for accidents)? drink alcohol? consume caffeine (substance most people in the world are addicted to)?
why people do thinks that are potentially dangerous are simple. the benefits in their mind outweigh the negatives ... just saying it shouldn't baffle you why people do things that are dangerous
Well I guess it doesn't baffle me I know why, like you say the benefits in their mind outweigh the negatives. But for some things smoking just one among them, I don't see any real benefits.
Personally I try and avoid bad risky decisions that have little or no benefit and generally like my women the same in that regard.
agree
I voted B because I don't smoke socially at partiesanymore, and I presume the term "smoker" in this question means someone who smokes on a daily basis, which I believe will turn me off in a female.
I would date a smoker but I would not marry one.
By date I mean nothing long term and we are not living together.
Yes...its their body. Unless they smoke in their house...ew
I would just marry a cigarettes smoker so we would smoke together and enjoy it.
I'm not a smoker, but would date and even marry him even if he is a smoker. But I rather he didn't, that would be my heart going over my head.
A. only my mum and I don't smoke in my family so I am fine with dating/marrying a smoker.
I don't smoke and I would never date/marry a smoker. There are just so many reasons why it's a bad idea.
I'd rather lick an ash tray, than kiss a smoker.
It tasted the same as kissing a non smoker, in my experience.
As the other commenter said, it doesn't taste any different. There isn't even a hint. And I'm very sensitive to cigarette smoke, being asthmatic and what not.
Nothing is more disgustingly nasty as a f***ing cigarette smoker, we should just ban them from society I wanna go up and beat the sh*t out of those f***ed up people who smoke in public and hang out in front of stores like they think they are cool poisoning little kids walking but go kill yourself smokers!
go for presidency, I'll vote for you lol
But I do respect your answer 100% ... I thumbs down you only because I believe everyone has the right to do what they want. obviously second smoke is uncool and shouldn't be accepted but to an individual who wants a cigarette who am I to judge. Cholesterol kills, so does booze, guns, etc. So who am I to judge someone and their vice... I love a strong whiskey and I wouldn't want some temperance movement freak b*tchin at me for being a bad person. just my opinion
I don't have a bad opinion of you as long as your not one of those bastards standing in front of stores smoking or smoking around kids or in public basically being a f***ing plague on society then no.
Only reason that cigarettes aren't illegal Daph is the nasty f***ers in charge of the senate and a lot of people in politics are addicted to death sticks themselves, and the people who aren't addicted are receiving loads of money from cigarettes.
And I'm not a temperance movement freak, I'm just not a nasty bastard.
temperance is in regards to alcohol (like the prohibition movement). I don't smoke the question was just a general one. Cigs are legal all over the world for the same reason alcohol, guns, etc are legal. People have the personal freedom to do whatever they want as long as it doesn't infringe on the rights of others. so I agree smoking in public should probably be illegal but if someone wants to do it in private that is their natural right... question: are you without vice?
No if they want to do it in the privacy of their own home go ahead. Wasn't trying to yell or scold you, your a grown ass man but second hand smoke really elevates my temper I'm sorry.
Your not even talking about cigarettes? Just pot, pot is natural do your thing.
no my question is about cigarettes. The question really isn't about me personally just general question. thanks for the apology, I was actually thinking the same thing that I don't need to get on my soapbox. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. and second hand smoke is gross, and irresponsible
Yeah no problem I know what you mean
The kill yourself smokers was a bit messed up if I might add, just have lost people because of them. And get really heated when I talk or think about them and I'm I don't really even have much of a temper except when that topic comes up lol.
they literally are killing themselves. Not fast enough though...
And I think smoking is not yet completely banned is because the cugarette industry is powerful. They pay good taxes, and if nobody smoked anymore, the cigarette industry would go bankrupt and that would be a huge loss to the government. Not to mention other industries related to smokers or smokign habit.
And I totally agree with you, smokers are f***ing ignorant. They do what they want without giving a sh*t who they're hurting
Smoking, bad; violence, good?
Haha! Okaaaaay...
Yes sparrow violence is bad, but so is second hand pollutinon. Daph are you the female version of me or something lol?
I just think people blow this WAY out of proportion WAY too often. It's weird, haha!
Lol... you must be a smoker sparrow. Smoking at least should be illegal in public, ain't nobody got time for all that unhealthy nastiness in the air.
As my answer reflects, I'm NOT a smoker, never have been :-)
I just don't think it's that big of a deal, I think people overreact quite a bit.
Especially considering the kind of people SOME date, saying a smoker is a no go is hilarious, haha!
Sorry to say this Sparrow, but you're ignorance is astounding... You must not know anything about cigarettes, so don't answer a question that you are not educated about.
Haha! I'm not ignorant. I'm aware of what cigarettes are capable of doing to us. I didn't say they were healthy, haha! I just said making it a deal breaker and wanting to beat a smoker is an overreaction. And it is.
I think it's funny that someone who says "I wanna go up and beat the sh*t out of those f*cked up people who smoke in public," and "Nothing is more disgustingly nasty as a f*cking cigarette smoker," and "go kill yourself smokers," is unable to recognize that they're overreacting.
I guess you have no emotion, nothing rattles you like that? Those people have not a brain cell to think what they're doing to everyone around them. And what's worse, they don't care.
The world is better off without those people so good riddance.
Sure. Violence rattles me. Intolerance rattles me.
People smoking a cigarette? Not so much.
Everyone has something that rattles them sparrow. I am not violent towards innocent people what so ever. But smokers just piss me off to the max.
Yeah, I think we got that, haha!
No I don't think you did, you're so quick to judge given no legitimate reason like I have. Get ignored little girl, don't bother responding smart ass.
I'm not the one judging. Please, calm down. Haha! There's no reason together so worked up.
*to get
"Get ignored little girl, don't bother responding smart ass."
you can't call someone ignorant and then resort to mysogyny (pot meet the black kettle). we all have triggers and clearly smoking is one for you; however, I think it's important to always ALWAYS be respectful and distance ourselves just enough from any issue so we try and listen, understand, and the reply appropriately
if I really like the guy so badly then ya possibly lol