Why would a guy say I never meant anything to him when clearly I did?

when a guy is rejected, much like a girl, we tend to lash out because it makes us feel better about ourselves. its an unfortunate thing but sometimes that's just what happens...you just have to pick yourself up and get back out there...they're not worth your time...writing questions like this
makes lots of sense and I was really just curious because he really took a lot of effort to attack me after all that effort to convince me to make it not just a one night stand... I didn't mean to outright reject him, I had no choice but to go home really, but I guess he didn't see it that way :/
thanks for the insight though he is being refiled back into the "fun memory" section of my brain (which was where he was anyway for most of the time I knew him anyway)
if he lashed out t you, why would he be a "fun memory". wouldn't that be for the "stay away from" part
The original hookup is a fun memory and actually a really funny and a moment of self actualization in my life and what I want out of life (much longer story). That memory had nothing to do with him as a person, but rather as for me as a person and I don't think the fact that he came back and then freaked out should ruin that... I feel like because of that I can keep him a happy memory for what he symbolized at first. That doesn't mean I would ever having anything to do with him again though ;)
I think you would
Haha oh hunny I'm sure you have fond memories of middle school, but would you ever go and enroll yourself again? ;) no especially after what happened I would definitely never try to relive it... To be honest what he represented when I first hooked up with him was that I didn't need a relationship because I'm happy being me... At the time my gfs from back home were all getting married and looking down on me for choosing education/career/world discovery above marriage and children :)
if I had to choose to go back, I would...I hate my lfe right now, it was so much simpler back then
Omg I'm so sorry what's wrong? Guess that was a bad example then lol... But you know what I mean. I'm taking the experience for what it's worth and only using it to move forward, but I'm not stupid enough to seek out someone who so treated me so carelessly
I just miss it is all
Haha well your middle school must have been a lot better than mine ;)
not necessarily better...just a better time
Haha yea that's what I meant lol
He was suffering from PMS.. Jk
He sounds very immature and doesn't know how to properly say goodbye.
Don't fret over it. Like you said it wasn't meant to Be any more than a one night thing.
Haha thanks it totally sounded like PMS to me too... I did really genuinely like him and thought he was a great guy (even was planning on trying to stay in touch after I went home) but on the other hand I always knew he had a bit of growing up to do... I just feel awful now even though I felt amazing after every time I've seen him despite the fact that I always thoughtI would probably never see him again... Thanks again for the support!
No worries. You will be fine. I. The future if you are going to have a one night thing just keep it there. Close the door on other possibilities. It helps keep things straight in your head. :)
You are so right! I should have never listened to him! I knew what I was doing when I started, but he felt the need to push for more... He should probably become an actor cause he faked it pretty well! Ironically I didn't even need him to tell me he wanted to see me again. I just would prefer not to be told that I'm obsessive and silly for listening to what he said on a basic level...
Yup.. Forget about him already.. :)
Haha already refiled away into the "fun" memory section of my brain :) thanks so much for you advice!
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