Questions: Dating

You met someone you really like and you start dating they become your boyfriend/girlfriend and then one day finally you go into their room and you find yourself in this hoarder room

What do you do?
they don’t know you went in there to see.

They forgot something and you figured you’d go get it and you just go in and find this ⬆️ 👆

What do you do?
be honest.

Can someone please give me advice. I matched with a guy on a dating app and we are in two different countries. We have stated that we are exclusively getting to know each other and to let the other person knows if that changes. I made us take the attachment test and we found out that he’s secure and I’m anxious. Because of the time differences we aren’t able to speak for that long however during the day we don’t have that much communication (which is bothering me). They message me in the morning and I message them back and I don’t hear from them until 11pm their time, which is when they are about to go to sleep. I’ve mentioned that I don’t like their communication style and they say they’ll work on it but it’s gotten worse tbh. I know they are busy and have a lot on their plate, so I’m trying to be understanding but it’s getting to me. I like is it a me issue or we just aren’t compatible. How am i suppose to get to know someone if we aren’t in communication… I don't know or am I being childish? I’ve always been huge on communication but I’m like is it bc I truly care about it or is it my attachment style playing a part in it. Also, we’ve only known each other for 3 months so it’s fairly new. Am I putting too much expectation on it? I don’t want to keep bringing it up because I have like 4 times. Should I end it because of communication issue. I do like him, his morals etc, there are something I don’t agree with him (which I think is normal bc it’s not everything you’ll agree with someone on) & I’d like to continue knowing him but I don’t know if I should. Someone please advise & thank you.

I have a guy friend that lives in my neighborhood. We met through tinder but nothing sexual ever happened between us since I never saw him that way even though he is super hot and adorable. We text everyday and talk about the most intimate things including relationships and sex and he oftentimes declared his feelings for me even when he was dating other women. Would you shy away from approaching a girl that has such a guy friend because it is a red flag? If yes, what exactly are you afraid of if nothing has ever happened between them for years?