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myTakes: Dating

The Imperfections that are Perfect For You

Many years ago, I was using an online dating site to find a guy, but I couldn't take any more than a few days investing in it. It seemed that both the men and women had a shopping list of what they required, and most of...
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Phone Full Of Matches: Tinder Tips For Guys

A woman's attraction / willingness to fuck you over tinder breaks down as follows: 1) High photo quality: 30% This is where you start. Your photo's are bait that hooks her in. I believe high quality photo's in the...
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Spending the weekend together (unintentionally) - dates #13-15

I spent the weekend with my now-boyfriend and though it wasn't intentional, I had a great time. Here are the last three posts I made about him (there won't be a post about date #12): Cold weather, all the feels and...
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Born in the wrong generation!

Do you feel like you were born in the wrong generation for dating? I do, I can't help but feel my morals and views on relationships don't meet up to the same standards as this generation. I'm definitely old school, just...
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Dating and how it screws guys.

Right swipe, right swipe, right swipe, .... Etc. Etc etc. Nothing. Then finally after a few days a match! Then she responds with one or two word answers. Expecting me to carry the entire conversation. Then one date, and...
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Women look like fools going on dating apps trying to look for love.

To understand why men cheat on good women. It is because we are too nice we allow men to act any kind of way. We lack boundaries and people do not take us seriously when we dont say anything to them about their bad...
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Holding your tongue

Some lessons are learned the hard way, especially in relationships. So many women ask am I pretty? However, most often they want to know whether you're attracted to them. Most women I'm not attracted to, I either feel it...
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Cold weather, all the feels and racism - date #11

I met someone and if you've been following our story for a bit, you'll know that I like to put the last three dates at the beginning of every post I make about this guy. "Why aren't we together yet?" - date #10 First...
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"Why aren't we together yet?" - date #10

I won't go into too much detail on this date, but here's a detailed description of our last three dates: First kisses and those scary little three words - date #9 How to have a cheap date (including amazing atmosphere,...
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Why I think I would like to date or be in a relationship with a goofy, awkward, quirky, dork

This will be a fairly short and not very detailed my take. But I like girls like that simply because I feel safe around them. I feel like I could be myself as much as they are being unashamedly themselves. They are just...
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Women and Hypergamy

Hypergamy = the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship witha person of a superior sociological or educational background. I don't know if it's actually scientifically proven that women are hypergamous so I'll...
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The minimum Standard for Women/ what Men should expect from a women.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DNL-z-SVu0c 1) Intelligent 2) Attractive 3) Open to Therapy 4) Feminine 5) Sexually generous 6) Invested in you 7) High quality friends 8) Want to know you 9) Correct relationship with...
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How to have a cheap date (including amazing atmosphere, great conversations) - date #8

As most of you are aware of now, I'm dating someone right now but we don't have a label yet other than being exclusive. We've been on so many dates recently that I haven't gotten around posting, so this is where the...
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Just because you don’t feel a romantic connection right away with someone, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it a chance to develop

Today, with dating apps, there is so much pressure and a lack of patience when it comes to developing a connection with someone within days or even hours of even knowing that person even existed. If that connection...
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More observations on dating: Adding to the brilliant MyTake from DexWest

I just read a very interesting and well-written MyTake by DexWest on dating and it inspired me to put down some of my own observations to add what he's started in this take: Observations on Behavior in Dating: A Battle...
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How Much Does Height Matter to Women? How Much Does Being Under Six Feet Tall Hold You Back As A Man?

Does height matter to women? How much does being short matter to women? - Research one: http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.532.1096&rep=rep1&type=pdf) - Research two:...
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Slowly falling for him, him hugging strangers, a really cute letter - date #7

This is about a guy I've known for more than three months now. Here are some of the other takes about him (most recent to least recent); Making memories together, him biting but not kissing me yet - date #6 Going...
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Making memories together, him biting but not kissing me yet - date #6

I haven't written about this in a while, but things are getting rather intense and I'm totally having it. Here are some of the other takes about this guy (most recent to least recent); Going exclusive is scary. Why...
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Online Dating is missing something very important!

So you are out and about with your friends on a Friday night and start to flirt with all kinds of people. This may take anywhere from 10-30 minutes before possibly exchanging a phone number. During the interaction you...
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Why I Would Never Date A Bad Boy

(Part 2) 5) They play around a lot Not all bad boys cheat. I know that. But if you're just testing waters... Eh. Or you're unsure of your love... Double eh. Until then we won't stop fooling around with others. And then...
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