myTakes: Dating

I will discuss my 1st dating experience and why I'm glad my girlfriend made me dress properly and why I became so attached to girls and women wearing dresses and why she wanted me dressed so well Meeting Lisa I met Lisa...

I bet you've heard the advice to "just be confident". "Women love confidence!". Well it's all basically crap. I've learned this the hard way. I've been focusing on improving my confidence with women over the years. I'm...

I often sit with a tumbler of bourbon, reflecting on the young ladies whose lives I hurt about 25 years ago. I was the type of guy who knew how to use his looks and modicum of charm to ensure very few lonely nights. It...

After a long marriage I am back in the dating world. Online dating is the big thing now. I've been single for 4 years now, have dated a lot and even had a few relationships since. One thing I notice is that girls complain...

1. Fake Profiles Everywhere I go now, there are so many fake accounts/bots. Not all apps have photo verification. It's not like it used to be, sadly. 2. Time Wasters Everywhere I go, a lot of people are "on it for a...

You wanna know what dating is like in Iraq? Well, I'm from Iraq and I'm here to tell you. Well, there isn't any . If you have a girlfriend, you have to marry her. (Sure, some guys do keep girlfriends for long, but it's...

In the United States, 1 out of every 5 boys are sexually abused by the time they reach adulthood. This amounts to 20% of men in American society have been sexually victimized. If you estimate that 48% of Americans are...

The whole dating/courting/flirting/seduction/cat & mouse game seems like a huge geocache hunt. You try to follow all these ambiguous & often flat-out confusing clues & signals, which can take you through some very...

For those of you who are fans of HITCH the movie I wanted to share a deleted scene. This Mytake is inspired by a question I just answered in the "dating" category that reminded me of this movie. So thank you for the...

Ever notice when some women shame men that date much younger women, they'll say things like "he's taking advantage of her immaturity", "he's predatory", "the power dynamics is not healthy" etc. Here's the thing, these...

Preface: A lot of things annoy me. I don't like people so it might surprise you to know my entire professional life has been dedicated to helping people. I was a combat medic in the Army for 10 years during which time I...

This is kind of response to my friend @Wowgirl30q 's article Why Guys Can't Get a Girl Anymore After I wrote this, i realized how long this was, but its a captivating read (i hope). Disclaimer: I know there is going...

Here is my version of the why you don't have a partner yet take inspired by this one . Since the other one is aimed at men ill aim this one at girls. And yes, this one is written from a geeks perspective. If other men...

I wanted to share a quick story about Bob and how we broke him out of the Friend Zone. WARNING: Kid's don't try this at home! So his name was Bob. Bob was about 5'8 200 pounds and the funniest guy you ever want to meet....

Since the breakup of a two year long relationship, I have been a Vagabond of sorts in the dating scene. I am an above average looking guy but by no means a model. I am not incredibly tall, I am only 5ft, 8 inches. I am...