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Atlanta, Georgia isn't known for being as diverse as cities like Chicago or Washington, D.C. and that's because in a way it's not. Its' over SIXTY percent black where as D.C. which is known a chocolate city is under 50 percent black. And when you're here, it will seem like the statistic should...

There are many obstacles to having a nice flow of options when choosing a mate. The major obstacle, however, are the rules of society. For women, it's an unwritten but commonly understood rule that girls don't approach guys, period. And many girls let the "right guy" slip through their fingers...

Nerds are notoriously bad at dating. They get into their own heads...overthinking constantly...respond to emotional situations logically. Don't think just feel. Let go. No, not so Nerd. Your greatest obstacle is your greatest strength. You aren't socially retarded, you're actually socially too...

Step 1: No Reaction. No ***** Given. Trump doesn't always react well but when he does, he nails 'em. The first and possibly most important step is not get in your feelings about what some random person or even a million random persons say about him. Here's the mindset to click into: This person...

Too Much Pride Pride, is a defense mechanism of insecurity. It's the opposite side of the coin of timidity. Even though it seems arrogant and attention--seeking and to a few even like confidence, pride is more about having a fragile sense of who you are and how you really measure up and an...

He's Completely Immune To Fear of Excommunication A lot of books will say the reason we have such a hard time being ourselves is because we have a primitive survival instinct to not get totally kicked out of the tribe which would mean death. Multiply that by thousands when you consider how many...

-Your Ego Your ego is one of those friends who pretends to be cool with you and looking out for you but is secretly very jealous of you and is always throwing little seeds of doubt in your head disguised as carrying advice. The messed up thing is that even when you realize what he's doing, you...

While being obsessed with girls seems like a perfectly acceptable use of a teenage boy's time and, to a lesser extent, a college man's lifestyle, I think there's a point where it gets a little sad based on a certain perspective. Statistic show that men almost universally desire a woman who is...

1) Worship women women on this site just want power lol they want to break a man down to his most pathetic self and laugh as he begs for approval. 2) be a virgin women on this site are intimidated by men who have sex. they feel like they'll never measure up sexually to his conquests and so the...

"The Art of Not Giving a F*ck" - Mark Manson The runaway success of a former pick up coach turned life advice coach for both men and women. This book breaks ground on a philosophy of living that few have gotten into--that nothing you currently care about matters. Ask a four year old your...

I may be preaching to the choir, but it occurs to me that a lot of men seem to think that being a great boyfriend is better than being a great "player" for lack of a better term. Why is this? Who told you this was the truth and what was their argument for it? I say NO!!! Gentlemen, answer just...

A lot of people on here complain that they date aholes and a lot of men and women on here agree that settling is a big part of finding a partner. I think nothing could be further from the truth. The thing is when we're young we want to explore and are attracted to things that are different....

I just saw this as a question and it reminded me that I've developed a working system for how I serial date to really unfair levels. Ok, so I'm going to skip ahead to actually having some people you want to talk to and see/date. How does one keep such a schedule with any consistency? 1) Start...

Too specific If I say imagine the person you think you'll end up with then the chances are you're going to choose someone who looks somewhat like you. This is natural as I just asked you the most logical conclusion to your love story. The thing with online dating is that you have so much power...

As a man who loves his media, I'd say Westworld impressed me a lot for it's interesting commentary on culture. Some of the storylines didn't pan out as strongly as I would have hoped they would. I think they suffered from too much complication in the plot and an ultimately unempathetic female...

The newest season of South Park had a lot of bleh segments but one thing I enjoyed was the shift to gender wars which, in many respects, have become more at the forefront than race wars, and which are definitely at work here on the site. Of course the main point of the show is to always poke fun...

Gentlemen, Gentlemen... The time has come. We all know it has. We take out girls who have their own money either from themselves or their parents. Hell, sometimes it's even MORE than we have and even in the face of that some girls expect us to pay for EVERYTHING. Consider why you don't want to...

Turn Rejections Into Fountains Unless we're trying to be players, we notice rejections and feel their weight. Yet, when you're building a dating life you learn that you should be excited when you're not someone's type. It's hard to be in the sweet spot of getting multiple girls out of a girl....

The Male Movement sounds like an odd thing. A gender that's historically and globally been the power group is suddenly feeling insecure and in need of cherishing, respect, and dignity? The Male Movement itself however is not a bad thing. It should never have been about treating women like evil...

Ha, this one is half instructional half hilarious. This Take is about how to game not totally ugly but not totally attractive girls either (We'll dub them UGG for now.) Uggs are probably not your favorite and probably not your least favorite but they account for the vast majority of actual...