Not really. Some bullies end up being pretty successful. This one guy that was a notorious bully at my high school is business owner and now a millionare with a mansion... and he is only 30. Similarly, some of the victims I have known have failed horrible at life and live in poverty.
That is not to say that all bullies become successful and that all victims fail at life. I have seen the opposite as well.
All my bullies were in middle school and high school. I moved out of the area a couple of years after graduation, so I don't really keep track of anybody from that time. I heard that the biggest bully (to everyone, not just me) dropped out and never graduated, never left the area, and never amounted to much of anything. He died about 5 years ago, so hopefully he's being tormented in hell now.
Not always, sometimes those being bullied become so depressed that they start avoiding school.
Very true, my bully is fat, ugly, and has 6 kids with no baby daddy
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Truth is, some totally fuck up in life, some kinda skate by, some reform, and others become a huge success. Truth is, I got bullied a lot. I fought back, viciously! Not all those bullies are still alive from what I have heard over the years. In 2nd grade, I beat the 6th grade bully so bad, that when he came out of his coma about a year later, he was a vegetable, and completely paralysed. Apparently, he was an even worse terror at home, because a few years after that happened, his parents actually sent me a thank you letter about 3 pages front and back. They thanked me for ending their nightmare, making their son much more docile and manageable, and they said what I did was an answer to their prayers to God.
Now, most people that are bullied deal with the long term damage and ptsd as a result. I certainly did. I still do, and I'm in my 40s!
So, I will say this:
Stand up for yourself and strike a blow quite true! Bullies are really cowards who only pick on those weaker and small because they figure that person can't and won't fight back. But as soon as you bloody them good, they either become your friend, or run away crying and screaming for the authorities like the little bitch they truly are. A coward will never deal with a fair fight or someone they know they will lose badly to... they tuck tail and run!
Good luck and happy hunting!
Well it depends. I do believe most of my bullies will have fairly good life cause their dads got money but I'm concerned about mine because I have anxiety.
Anyway, I was bullied in school for reading very old school classic Bengali novels, because they think only old people read these stuff. Well, I got world highest mark in my Bengali GCSE exam last year, so... Surely you can make biggest achievements out of things you get bullied for!
It's the opposite actually, bully tend to be loud and loud / talkative people are preferred in work environment (at least in my country).
The bullied one will either :
- stay bullied all his life even in his job
- can't be able to keep a job because he's insecure / not talkative
- best option can end up rich but very very few would end like that.
This is if the bully is a man. If the bully is a girl she would most likely become pregnant as a teen early 20s and work at mcdo all her life.
There are some few cases but we don't have enough evidence to regard it as,
Positive correlation towards the bullied and I bullied a lot of nerdy kids back then (I am not proud of it) but I always helped them in need.
I helped them with assignments, getting in soccer team (I was the captain) and even helped someone for prom date.
Pretty true. Some change and others do not. But some of the victims got it so worse that they often need counseling. Sadly the whole world promotes bullying in their own way and that is how they end up with the best things or the top 1%.
I don't know I think bullying comes in many forms and most politicians were definitely bullies in high school... but if you mean the muscle kind. They probably have peaked at a young age if that’s all they had going for them.
I think a good portion of them peak in high school and then it all goes downhill from there. But some may be able to turn their lives around, who knows
I’m sure you’ll get lots of anecdotal evidence to confirm your belief. I doubt there is any actual strong correlation.
Not necessarily true that they fail, but it seems that they bully others, if they attain any kind of status.
Kind of, it all depends what the fruit of their future actions are, they do have the opportunity to change their actions after highschool
Most people I would say peak in high school and college. That's why they love it so much it's the best time of their life the rest of their life is having to listen to the people they used to make fun of at working nonstop barely getting by.
Most of them are locked up
1) Beaten it’s newborn child to death
2) robbing a store at gunpoint
3) selling drugs in a public space
4) shot and killed by a drive by shooting
Nobody bullied me in high school. That was elementary and middle school. I have not exactly kept in touch with these people, so I have no idea how they're doing in life.
I believe that bullies can change their behavior and become better people and successful.
I don’t know. I went to 5 high schools in 4 states.
Life isn't a cartoon. Bullied people tend to live a passive life.
It depends. Everyone is an individual.
Bullies should be hanged
I ain't a bully and i still can't get hired hahaha
It depends
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