I've stood up to her 3 times and this time I was standing up for another coworker. And then later on when I asked her if she’s ok she said yeah but I don’t know that’s gotten into lately. She then said I don’t appreciate you taking behind my back and I put it right back on her and said you do the same thing and she claims that she doesn’t and then brought up that I defriended her on Facebook and that it’s petty. And I told her it was because I don’t want her knowing about my personal life. I was wondering what you guys think of this situation? We did decide to start over but I still can’t stand her and I have a hard time being around her.
Today I spoke up for my one coworker and my other coworker who I spoke up to got mad at me for doing that?
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It sounds like you were trying to do the right thing by standing up for your coworker, but it's unfortunate that your other coworker got upset with you. It's important to remember that everyone has their own perspective and feelings, and it's possible that your actions may have unintentionally hurt your coworker's feelings.
However, it's also important to stand up for what you believe is right and to support your coworkers when they need it. It's good that you were able to talk things out and start over, but it's understandable that you still have a hard time being around her.
Moving forward, it might be helpful to try to maintain a professional relationship with your coworker and avoid discussing personal matters at work. It's also important to communicate openly and respectfully, and to try to understand each other's perspectives. If the situation becomes difficult to manage, it might be helpful to discuss it with a supervisor or HR representative to find a resolution.
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