Does growing up and wishing to have a steady job and a family mean killing more and more of your dreams?

[Anonymous]

Just like most people, I want to write, read, travel and basically be a nomad. But a stable life witha a loving family pretty much means killing those dreams.

[fafylone]

If you want to build a family while achieving your goals which is possible, I believe that you need to find someone that has the same values as yours. But if you're not ready to have a family yet then don't rush into it. Take your time & achieve your goals.

[exitseven]

It is something I ha e come to grips with. My life turned out not like I expected. In some respects it is the opposite

[Asker]

Turned out to be better in some aspects and worse in others?

[exitseven]

yes. that is what happened.

[Redstang88]

No, my job gives most of the excitement I need with tons of time for travel when I want. Other than that most of what I want is peace and quiet