I mean celebs are people that we will never ever meet in real life, not even for friends, acquantances, dating with, they are like off limits, picky and they won't lower their high celeb status to date a Joe or Jane Doe/there are few exceptions, I clarify), therefore they unapproachable, unreachable people for normal ordinary people like you and me and still people have crushes on them. I mean some crushes go to the extreme of people get upset when a celeb dates, or gets married or has a new girlfriend/boyfriend (like any other regular Joe or Jane who happens to do the same: date, have girlfriend/boyfriend commit get married and have family), at the end cele bs and us mortals or ordinary common Jane or Joes, are plain human beings, they are flesh and blood like us, they have feelings, they cry, they are happy,, they are sad, they suffer, they also have health issues, they have friends, they go to trips, among many other things celebs do or are, just like any Joe or Jane.
What is the diference to have a crush on a celeb than to a regular Joe or Jane, who also can't be off limits to us? I mean there are also Janes or Joes who are also attractive, sexy, popular and gorgeous, with money, who are not celebs but also could be unapproachable, and off limits to us but celebs have something in particular other regular joes or janes with money and popularity do not have and people have more crushes on them and people want to know EVERYTHING about that celeb.
What is the the particular thing that sets the difference between a real celeb (actresses, actors, famous musicians, athletes) and a ordinary Jane or Joe?