My boyfriend and I were at a blues dance and I felt like I was being judged in general and I was wondering what I should do when that happens?

[Anonymous]

Also there was this one guy who my boyfriend and I introduced ourselves to him and he seems to watch us dance. I was wondering why he was doing that. It made me fee awkward. No rude comments please.

[Anonymous]

I recently went line dancing with my boyfriend at a new place and let me just say it’s easy to feel insecure or like you’re being watched. I think it just comes with the experience and you have to get out of your own head. That guy will be one of many who observe when they see new faces, so Instead of worrying about what outsiders are thinking, focus on the date with your boyfriend and enjoying yourselves, even if you mess up or look funny while you’re doing it. That’s how you create memories and things to look back on and laugh at.

[BigDog1989]

Not care?

Why do you care what a bunch of random people think of you?