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Disclaimer:
To all the people I chat here with, this is not about you being wrong or right, this is purely my view on the subject, you are always free to act as you wish, and you are great as you are <3
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Chit Chat:
- New Person, new chat always start with greeting, yes we have been doing that for millions of years why should we change that? I am not here to impress you with my vocabulary skills or my cool opening lines.
- How are you? It is always nice to ask people about how they are. They might be feeling bad and they might vent for someone new as they feel some connection and bring you two closer as chat buddies, or it might indicate that the person is in a bad mood and don't want to talk.
- Time. You should keep in mind that both of you are giving up time to be here, and this means you got to respect each other in that manner.
- Wait for a reply. You don't know what is going around the person you are chatting with. They might get busy and not be able to reply or even give you a notice that they would be away for a while, try to wait and understand that life is full of surprises.
-Try to make it clear when you are finished chatting. Many times people just stop chatting not making it clear that they are finished with the subject and the other would be waiting for a reply.
- Goodnight and goodbye. People have been using that for years it is a good way to end a finished conversation without any awkwardness.
Shit Chat:
- New person and new chat. Hold your horses and don't be over the top, have some courtesy and respect for the person, you are still new and it is hard for you both to accept offense or jokes.
- You can expect that the other person wouldn't share many things as it is personal and always appreciate if they share with you, it means that they trust you.
- Time. don't abuse it when it is good night then it is time to sleep, then try not to text while that person is sleeping.
- Replies, you won't lose anything or the world would go out of balance if you reply more than one text for one, it is not a match to keep it balanced, no one is keeping a score.
- Don't take too much to reply. Many people here takes a day or two, some months to reply it is not cool and you need to know that G@G shows when you were last online.
- Try to be polite, no need for you to use bad words and swear (I never swear).
Final Words:
Chatting has become more casual. No one takes it in the least serious, even close people you chat with every day, they take it as a fun activity. I take as a way to communicate and share thoughts, feelings and experiences, I don't mind that people are careless it won't change how I treat them with love and respect.
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