Feel like my friend looks down on me? How to get her to stop?

[Anonymous]

Whenever we talk about girls we find attractive she always criticises my choices as boring whereas she sees hers as superior because they aren't classically perceived as attractive. She also claims I am shallow because I wouldn't have given this girl she liked a chance. However, it seems like she would have done the exact same thing with any girl I found attractive but she doesn't see the hypocrisy. She also just makes sweeping sexist statements about men in this context which is really annoying. She also claims that I would believe anything someone says if they have big boobs which isn't true either.
Also, when we talk about my singledom she doesn't listen when I tell her I don't have that many female friends and claims I must be really picky, only going for pretty girls. However, of the few girls I do know, they are attractive but for personality or other reasons I don't want to date them.

She never listens to me, assumes she knows me better than I know myself and then makes me feel bad about it. I'm fed up of it and I just want her to stop. Please help?

[Paris13]

It sounds like she either has a crush on you here, dear, and Secretly wants you for herself and that no one is good enough for you, or you Both are on the Wrong Topic and should either change the subject and talk about something else you can both agree on or... consider her a Fair weather friend and move on to another friend indeed and in need.
Good luck. xx

[Asker]

Yeah, I've got other mates I should go to for things like this. I thought she was just being whiney because she thinks I like obvious girls.
Sometimes I think I like her but then sometimes she can be a right arse and I just want to avoid her so I am better off being a fair weather friend of hers like you say.

[Paris13]

Yes, I agree, for friends like Her, who needs enemies.:)) xxoo

[kelly173815]

I'd say the same as anon above, she probably likes you as more than a friend.

[Asker]

What is the best way of giving the hint that I want to remain as just friends.

[kelly173815]

Just keep doing what you're doing, saying you're interested in girls that either look nothing like her, or way above her in the looks department, she'll know that she doesn't have a chance with you. And if she does confess any feelings to you, just gently tell her you only feel friendship between the two of you and nothing more.

[Anonymous]

lol what a weird friendship. what weird people. your friend sounds jelly. maybe she fancies you?

[Asker]

What makes you think she fancies me?

[Opinion Owner]

this whole "you never wanna date (us) less pretty girls" stuff...

[Asker]

Good point, she has quite low self esteem as well. She thinks I like standard attractive girls and then blames me for it. I really don't think I am any less shallow than her, especially as she stayed with her ex (who was an arsehole to her) partly because really she fancied him, in her words.