Girlfriend ignores me in public?

[adamretex81]

when we are alone indoors or out somewhere, we are inseparable. However, when we go to a public place with many people for example a party or a big dinner, she avoids me. it seems she talks to everyone else but doesn't spend even a minute with me. we have dated for 2 month and were close friends before that too. I feel ignored but I don't understand why. can anyone tell me why a girl would do that and be extremely close & affectionate when we're alone..? Please help. Thank you.

[jessthatgirl]

I think it would be best if you talk to her when you have the time, in a place where you two can be alone. Tell her how you feel and maybe she just didn't realize she was acting the way she did. Sometimes people can be unaware of their actions. You could also try and join in the conversations she is in and just being there instead of standing around so you can get involved also and won't feel that way. Try to make your own atmosphere.. if you know what I mean. Create what you want would happen.

[adamretex81]

I did, but she just made silly excuses. She thinks too emotionally. I cannot explain things to her logically. I can't make her understand like that. How do I make a breakthrough to a girl who alway thinks emotionally and says that she "feels" this or that.. ?

[jessthatgirl]

She feels what , what did she exactly say?

[adamretex81]

She denied it at first and then after explaining it to her, she admitted it "may have been a little curt of her" to ignore me. But other than that, she just thinks with emotions only. She sometimes says that she's really likes me and is very happy with me, talks about futre, kids etc. Then somedays she says she doesn't 'feel' I'm the one for her to be with long time and when I ask her to explain she says she will just 'feel it' when she meets the guy she's meant to be with (like in movies)..?

[jessthatgirl]

That's tough then. If she always uses her emotions and stuff. Well try to do the best you can do to make things work out with you guys and I really think she should think of your feelings as well because she shouldn't act according to her emotions all the time; it's just not fair.

[Boogers]

I would up her 1 on that just to amuse myself.