Do you believe that spanking and hitting your child is a good form of discipline? (Page 3)

[TedDeeG]

No, nowadays they might enjoy it. Living within a sexually robust and masochistically lascivious society. In this last age sparring the rod or not they probably still be spoiled. Spoiled goods. Rotten to the core.

[Iron_Man]

I was spanked I turned out perfectly fine and I will spank my children if I ever have them and I'm sure they will turn out perfectly fine

[jacquesvol]

teaching ķids violence is OK

[Iron_Man]

Is disciplining them to correct them

[jacquesvol]

And then you're astonished your society is violent.

[Iron_Man]

No brother

[jacquesvol]

You taught violence

[Iron_Man]

I don't even have any kids. You're up against the world on spankings. Make a poll then tag me

[jacquesvol]

Thanks for the good news :)

[Iron_Man]

@jacquesvol you're up against the world they dont agree with you so are you going to tell the world thanks for the good news? You're very disrespectful about Christianity and I don't appreciate it you're always saying yeah like I believe in the Spaghetti Monster. I suggest you take a timeout now because I'm getting irritated and I have company around me

[Mr_Mystery]

If you think about fastest way to teach someone rules yes. However it isn't good teaching them frim young age that they can get anything with violence.

[sonnysunshine]

The fact that parents won’t beat their children (within appropriate bounds) is exactly what’s wrong the western world.

That 13 yr old kid deserved worse for why he did.

[jacquesvol]

teaches ķids violence is OK and then you complain about violent youth

[sonnysunshine]

@jacquesvol you don’t punch and kick your kid. But a bitch slap when they are acting up is sometimes appropriate.

[jacquesvol]

teaching ķids violence is OK and then you complain about violent youth in our society

[sonnysunshine]

@jacquesvol I complain about disrespectful youth and grown ass adults who never had a strong parents teach them discipline

[jacquesvol]

@sonnysunshine how can youth respect the people who beat them up?

[sonnysunshine]

@jacquesvol I’m not talking about punching and kicking your kids. There is a LIMIT. But spanking your child for acting up is okay.

I was the oldest in my family and my parents had no problem slapping me around. 95 perecent of the time it was justified. For the other 5 percent, my dad apologized to me when I was 25.

[Pink2000]

Absolutely. He knew better that’s why he got his ass whooped.

[Emojo]

Seriously, mom? The kid's 13. TALK some sense into him.

[codycccccc]

Isn't stealing your mom's car Grand theft auto and usually 10 years in prison

[Quidthonian]

How else are you going to get your point across when they ignore everything you say?

[KarimM]

Only if it is Necessary, Proportionate, justifiable, reasonable, accountable and a last resort given all the circumstances.

I have never had to hit/spank any of my children. There are plenty of more effective ways.

[dreamstar72]

Fu~€ no!!! It's an A$$9 way, you damage a child that way.

[Lance1965]

I don't think spanking achieve anything but some parents swear by it. My ex believed in spanking whereas I didn't.

[Malik00]

To an extent sometimes you gotta smack some sense into your kids so they dont do stupid stuff

[HeyThere94]

My girlfriend likes to spank my naughty ass often hehe

[Gottabsavagee]

Well yes it is right but you should not go overboard and abuse the kid!

[PunkGirl93]

I will spank my future kids when they are being bad

[TonyMetal86]

Good answer

[cvarnado2]

Yes. Firm discipline is very important in a child's life

[Decentguy]

yeah, but there should be a limit to that, you shouldn't beat yoir child very badly

[PsychoKiller]

Of course not. This type of violence is always done out of feelings of helplessness and inability to handle the situation, just like beating your wife

[That1tallguy]

Beating and spanking is a huge difference. You could spank your wife and she'll most likely like it 😂 and if you beat your kids then it becomes abuse.

[PsychoKiller]

@That1tallguy but your kids won't really like spanking, nor should you ever spank them in the same way you would your wife. and the only reason kids are spanked and not beaten is because if you went all iron Mike Tyson on them, they would die after like 1 or 2 mistakes

[That1tallguy]

No shit they won't like it do you think they let getting grounded too? They won't like any type if punishment. Depending on what your into it may not by all that different. Have you never heard daddy punish me some girls are into that kink. I never heard it in person but it's definitly no abnormal. Then there's bdsm were you might use an actual belt or paddle.

"Went all iron Mike Tyson" 🙄 seriously no one in the right mind would do that. Hit anyone with a bald up fist and that's assault. Not to sound like a dick but statements like yours make me question if your actually a 30 year or just some kid posing as an adult.

[PsychoKiller]

@That1tallguy "statements like yours make me question if your actually a 30 year or just some kid posing as an adult." well ditto, while my original comment was completely serious, my reply to you is half a joke, because you started comparing spanking kids and spanking children as punishment which is beyond ridiculous, so I assumed you were joking. and now failing to see obvious jokes also makes you look pretty stupid, additionally.

[That1tallguy]

Your realise your in the minority right. Thinking spanking as a form of punishment is ridiculous. Sarcasm doesn't always translate well through text, everybody knows that

[PsychoKiller]

@That1tallguy even if that was true, and its not, Id like to quote the famous politician Adlei Stevenson, after they told thim that every person in their right mind would vote for him - "thats not good enough for me, I need the majority". so yeah, that is completely meaningless. and anybody who has to apply force on a weaker being (whether its a woman or a child) is simply a powerless weak piece of shit, and should have the woman/child taken away from him, after receiving the beating of a lifetime. The only legit scenario where force is a valid way to get a point across is when dealing with primitive hostile equals.

[DashboardLight]

I'd only use spanking if really necessary. If my kid started to smoke, do drugs, bully people or stuff like that, I'd give him/her a good lash.

[jacquesvol]

Then your kid will know you think violence is acceptable in your mind

[DashboardLight]

@jacquesvol
In circumstances like these, it's necessary. You teach your kid what to do and what not to do. You can teach him that by talking with him about it, but with stuff like smoking or bullying, talking isn't enough. A smack is way more useful than 1000 preaches.

[jacquesvol]

Let's hope you get one from your father in law then

[DashboardLight]

@jacquesvol
Er... my father in law is not my father, aka not my parent?

[jacquesvol]

To defend his grandchildren from you

[DashboardLight]

@jacquesvol
Ugh... please. So many children nowadays that use drugs or smoke because their parents didn't teach them properly.

[jacquesvol]

Our son never smoked and doesn't drink

[BellumEtPacem]

To my understanding spanking enforces fear, not respect. So it's not effective/good as a form of discipline.

[Hypnos0929]

I think nowadays a lot of parents go overboard. But if my nieces or nephew stole my car they are getting belted into next week

[NotATherapistButITry]

I think that if a parent had to resort to spanking, they are doing something wrong.

[MouthfulofDiamonds]

As my friend the correctional officer would say that kid will be in my house soon

[Parkwayvwhitechapel]

no i dont' agree with it, you are supposed to nurture and care for a child not beat it

[omda123]

Yes it does teach them lessons
But it should be done rarely when the chiled repeat the same mistakes

[jacquesvol]

@omda123 it teaches kids violence is OK

[LuWe22]

It is literally against the law (Germany) So no I don't think it is good.

[karlalikesflowers]

Spanking is never a answer it hurts and makes kids hate the parents

[TonyMetal86]

I don't care if they hate me now but they will thank me later

[HenryThePooper]

I never hated my parents...

[TonyMetal86]

@HenryThePooper me neither

[halfbowsey]

@TonyMetal86 me neither. And now look at me. The world's greatest :)

[valualty]

No the child learns what you teach them. Show them anger and range they'll gow up like that

[dontgofalling]

Very bad, very very bad, it won't bring anyone any if not backwards...

[witherwing]

No. I think it's illegal for a good reason.

[crazy8000]

It is in most first world countries since somewhere between late 70's and early 80's.

[Zodiac10]

spanking and hitting are two different things

[Zodiac10]

Those who have never been spanked if you say its wrong then you don't even know what it's like. Those who have been spanked who say its wrong were spanked incorrectly.

[ThisDudeHere]

Nah, no child abuse there.

[blubblubblub]

the image gag gave this question made me snort

[azzntittiz]

No, it's made me crazy.

[BornFree]

Yes

They must learn

[goaded]

No, it does not work and creates violent children.

[kreamykraemez]

Depends on the situation

[kreamykraemez]

But the limit is 3 lashes anything beyond that I find unnecessary

[Kenni]

It never is.
It destroyed me on the inside.

[crazy8000]

You would be even more with wrong mental handling and abuse.

[Kenni]

Don't think you know me or what I've been through to say that

[wadeabeee]

I think you turned out t9 be a great woman.

[MarilynMansonsSlvt]

NO!
xx
~ Mrs Manson

[Fredde199]

If you want to raise a sociopath sure 👍

[Chthou95]

Sonetimes the only way is an ass whooping.

[Mynamejef696]

I don't think it's abuse in that situation

[name_is_eric]

Within limits, it is good.

[Wifflesnoofer63]

Beat those little shits til they learn to obey.

[Taqashii]

nobody can train someone by using violence!😤

[TsubasaCorrupted]

I was and it taught me to behave myself because bad choices of mine had bad consequences.

[Taqashii]

@TsubasaCorrupted aww really?
Dont do this to yourself😶

[ROCKS128]

Me too. I was punished when i was wrong at young age. As i grew old i realised and im good.

[TsubasaCorrupted]

Don't do what to myself?

[Gedaria]

Not really it can be self defeating !!!

[1smooth28]

I don't think so, I think there are better ways

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It is but it should always be the last resort.

[zagor]

Maybe not but it sure relieves stress...

[hammeronfire]

yes i do. i was a kid who got spanked

[SouthernGirl23]

Depends on how bad the child is

[BonnieBunny]

13 is too old to be spanked wtf

[RedEyedZaza2399]

Yes but not to hit them brutally

[Nikki6969s]

Never

[ILikeRamenNoodles]

Yeah

[Giggletr0n]

Nope, never have!

[lovedejj_xo]

I think it’s wrong

[sidzyyy]

Not at all

[johnto]

Yes it is

[Evan94]

No I don't