I want ask my parent for spanking instead of long grounding. Is this a good idea?

[Anonymous]

Ok, there is a story:
I am 14, I promised I'll back to home from a New Year Part a 1 a. m. I was at home much later, something like 6 a. m. My mum and dad went crazy, mainly because I didn't answer when they were calling. Not my fault, there was loud music, i didn't hear the phone.

Now they are angry and I'm grounded for a next month! Phone and internet only for a half hour per day! It's third day and I cannot stand it.

And there is an idea: ask them for a spanking instead. But... I haven't been spanked before. My parents got spanked my brother 2 or 3 times but not me. Does is hurt a lot? I am probably too old for a hand spanking. For what kind of spanking should I ask to sound serious but not being spanked too harsh?

Updates

+1 y

So... I asked them.
They started looking at me seriously. And my mum said: ok, we can do this way. Go for a hairbrush.
I was terrified, but returned holding the hairbrush. Before mom said a word, my dad started laughing: "ok, she learned a lesson". "we are canceling the grounding, but please do not this anymore, we were really afraid for you".

Not grounded anymore and not spanked, yipiee!

[OliviaCalme]

If I were you, I would ask them.
If I were your parent, I would refuse your proposition.

But you asked some questions, so there answers:
Yes, it can hurt A LOT, but just for a short while. You would have a sore bottom for a few hours.
Hand spanking? Definitely not. At that age some "tools" are used. Do not get a spanking over trousers - people usually try to compensate the clothing and spank much harder. Do not get spanking bare bottom, you are way too old for that.

[Asker]

How do you know that?

[OliviaCalme]

Personal experience.

[Asker]

Thanks. I asked them, and they refused!

by the way. Had you really been spanked at my age?

[OliviaCalme]

Great! Hug them from me. And behave better next time.

Yes, I had, but that's not topic for a public discussion.

[Wallflower101]

I think a long grounding better is better. Don't worry probably only be a month max. I used to get grounded for 6 months

[Asker]

6 months? For what?

[Wallflower101]

I got D's and F's in school

[Miristheiss]

You are too old for a spanking. That is something you do to a 5-6 year old. The fact that the grounding will be more "painful" to you is the best reason to go with that punishment. It increases the chances of you learning your lesson and not repeating the behavior.

Sure, request the spanking. I doubt any parent is going to opt to spank a 14 year old instead of taking away privileges and social time.

[Asker]

Yes, they didn't want spank me!

[Aizou]

Grounded as in can't leave the house? Or just the phone/Internet thing? In any case, you can always read books. There's plenty to do outside as well, but if you aren't an outdoorsy type, I understand.

I don't think asking for a spanking would make them want to. They may not want to physically hurt their little girl, right?

[Asker]

Grounded as in can't leave the house? Or just the phone/Internet thing?

Both.

[spartan55]

This is funny. It IS all your fault that you didn't get home on time, the music was too loud? Are you kidding me? Your parents have every reason to be pissed. Take your punishment and shut up about it.
And you are too old to be spanked, that is stupid to even suggest that. Learn from your mistakes and be responsible.

[PondyPand]

The fact you want a spanking is why they're punishing you differently. Don't be a fucking retard and disobey and be stupid, and you won't get punished.

[Asker]

Will try!

[Kurαȷ]

This is comedy gold.
No, you should not ask your parents to spank you instead, you are only going to reinforce the idea that grounding you was an efficient form of punishment.

[Sweatyotterr]

Ya that is kind of weird i dont like people touching my ass

[Pink2000]

It’s their fault for letting you go in the first place.

[Zama6]

just say them sorry with you deep hearts
and do things what they want
they won't spank you

[Asker]

Will try!

[Zama6]

they are your parents
they love love for sure
they will forgive you

[Asker]

They forgave me;)

[HereIbe]

Idunno, teen girl asking for spanking? Sounds kind of perverted.

[Nachowedgie]

Ok now I know you're trolling, on your previous you said your grounding had ended the other day so you're just making all this up for attention

[Sexylover1]

I'd spank and ground you. Think of how worried they was. Not cool !

[codycccccccccc]

You have the shittyist parents on earth

[Kalinka_]

Deal with your punishment.

[HeyThere94]

I found the troll 😂😂😂

[briandayton]

i think so say you want to get it over with

[interstellar]

U deserve to be spanked hard

[interstellar]

U still deserve it tho, naughty girl

[Anonymous]

I think its a bad idea...

[19irish76]

Sure.