Would you want to be in the room if your partner was giving birth? (Page 2)

[BlessedDaddy]

Everything will change once you are ready to give birth. If a man didn't want to be there before you were pregnant, he will once you are. Babies do that to people.

[bitner6564]

Yes I would that is a beautiful thing to see and to be there with your partner to see the most beautiful thing being born yes I would love to I've been there already even though I'm divorced but I've been to both of my kids being born it's beautiful

[TienShenhan]

I was there when my daughter was born, and I had nothing but hate for the mother. I didn't show that on the surface though. I got her through her pregnancy as stress free as possible because I wanted my baby in her womb to be stress free. But the fucking cunt smoked cigarettes at her mom's house and wouldn't eat anything healthy I cooked for her so I had to buy her fucking mcdonalds just so she'd eat. Fucking bitch

[ksmiller]

I would definitely want my husband in the room with me

[Twalli]

Did he mean he wouldn't be in it at all, or just with the COVID-19 thing?

[Asker]

At all is what he meant. The husband of my friend wants to be there, but may not be because of covid-19.

[worldscolide]

The only thing that would keep me from being at my wife's side, is if I were dead. And if that happened, I'd make God my bitch until he returned me..

[ChloeStarlight]

In the future when I have a boyfriend, I would want him in the room while I was giving birth

[caboosi]

I think the sexual attractiveness of having a child is the very lease of your worries... You've just signed on for 18 years of hell. But as for being in the room, I certainly wouldn't enjoy it, and I would quite possibly close my eyes while she wasn't looking at me. But I would be there to hold her hand, thats the right thing to do. She had to go through some of the worst pain imaginable and 9 months of feeling like shit. So yeah, I won't enjoy it but I'll be there to get her through it.

[the_bornloser]

Yes.. It would be good if I can accompany her. Giving birth is painful and at the same time anticipating. I would want to hold her hand and easing her out.

[humanearth]

Nope, call me old fashion. I'll just wait in the waiting room

[Thotkiana]

I def wouldn't want him there but i plan on doing a home birth so

[DiscomfortZone]

Absolutely! I was there watching my daughter coming into this world, there is nothing remotely similar!

[Anonymous]

Yes. I had to deliver my first born in the tent while camping I do not perfer to do that again though.

[Asker]

Whoa seriously?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it was very messy and I do not recommend going camping when you're close to your due date.

[MORPHEUS_12]

Reading this makes me question is he hiding the truth that he doesn't want kids.

[CrazyRay43]

You’re too young to be considering having children with a boyfriend... find a real man, get married and have a kid at 32

[Asker]

I am not planning on having kids now, as I said, I was just interested in opinions because I always thought of the father being there as the norm. I would like kids some day, but it doesn't concern me now.

[lucky69]

Best experience ever also scariest lol when my son came out lol loved it not for everyone tho...

[Merls]

Absolutely! Whether it's my child or not, my partner is who I want to be with, so I'm going to support her!

[OddBeMe]

I’d want to support her, near the head. And they’d need to wash it before I touch the baby.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Sure I'd be because it's a right even if my wife don't want me too because that's my child too.

[Asker]

I get how important it is to be there as a father... but I think if your wife really didn't want you there then it would be best to respect that. The more comfortable the mother is, the easier the delivery will be.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And if my wife wants me to be there i should be there too? But what if i don't want? She should also respect me if that's the case. The more comfortable physically is what you are talking about and my appearance doesn't do anything to her physical position but before committing the pregnancy, she should also remember that i have the rights to be there even if you don't want to. Because nobody is forcing her to give birth really.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If she is an pretty comfortable because of my presence, then it's not my fault she committed having a child in the first place.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*uncomfortable

[Asker]

Of course she should respect it if you don't want to be there and not force you. But what I meant was, if she felt like it would stress her out having you in the room, it may be best to wait outside while she goes through it so she is more relaxed. It is a time when women are in the worst pain of their lives and having someone there can make it more irritating for some women, but some women find comfort in it. You should choose what's best for you.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then if it would stress her that is how birth is supposed to be and she committed in the first place. Because you know i'm not just giving her my sperm bank if she thinks i don't have the rights but if she don't want stress i'm keeping my pants down. I can just give her the decision to adopt if she wants. Besides i'm the one paying for the hospital bill in the child support not her.

[gta_fan]

no, I once saw a birth video on youtube and it sickened me (could only watch less then half)