Ideally would you prefer/have preferred to have kids before or after age 30? (Page 3)

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Feel free to specify an age below since the poll is pretty broad. And if you already have kids, whats the age you preferred vs how it turned out? I personally wanted kids early 20s. I decided to at least finish college first and completed a pointless 4 year degree by age 23. Ideally, i wouldve become a parent by age 24/25 but that sadly didn't happen. I’ve always preferred to birth all my children before the age of 30. At this rate, i’ll be lucky to have at least one before i turn 30. After 30, i have no intentions of birthing more and would much rather adopt at least one child. 
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REALSTEEL · Answer

causee it gives you time to plan and get ready hopefully find a goid woman by tgen thats honest and faithful

EmotionOfFear · Answer

At least 30 and definitely early 30s. So many risks increase for birth defects the longer you wait. Women past 34? Risk goes WAY up, having a child with them.

Anonymous · Answer

I was 34 and 36 when I had children. Their mother was 36 and 38. We had been married for 12 years. I’m glad we waited. Having children late keeps you young and in touch with younger people longer. It’s your own kids, of course, but also their friends’ parents with whom you end up socializing. Having focused on our careers in our 20s and early 30s, we’ll be able to retire early as our kids finish college.

Anpu23 · Answer

We were both 20 when our oldest was born and 29 when the youngest was. I agree, just about perfect.

Wiredone · Answer

We had 3 kids. one at age 23, 30 and the last at 32. I wish the last two we had while still in our 20's

nella965 · Answer

Statistics have shown that people who marry at older ages tend to have more lasting marriages. Parents who give birth in their 30s also tend to also have less financial worries when it comes to raising kids.

Nahid1707 · Answer

That’s a good question, preferably before thirty with her and even if i have one child in my life, I’ll be happy 😊😊

Anonymous · Answer

I want to have 3 kids, I'd want to have some in my mid twenties- mid thirties. Any age under 35.

Paulychicago10 · Answer

I did years ago, but have no inclination to have them now.

Djaay · Answer

Well I have 10 children with my first wife who sadly tragically passed on. 2 with my current younger wife of 5 years. Honestly , the younger the healthier for bearing children. I might add that I was present for the birth of all twelve of my children.

menina · Answer

I'm not sure if I want kids. But if I decide to have them, I would prefer them to be born in my early 30's.
Even if I wanted to have children now it wouldn't be possible, since I can't be in a relationship and I'm not ready.

Gezginmalkoçoğlu · Answer

I think under 30 because; body natural balance is very important

Maspolomas · Answer

I had two before the age of 30 and one after the age of 30

Leavesbound · Answer

The older you are the better financial position you will be in to take care of them. The younger you are the better the chances of meeting your great grandchildren.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

met my ex husband at 27, married 30 or 31. first kid 33, last kid 35... all good. never planned it.  no such thing as which is better... just let life take its course.

connemara_crocodile · Answer

After 30 for sure. I'm 29, no kids and I regret nothing. I had great experiences in life and love, I saved good money, and now I feel ready to have kids.

putthefootdown · Answer

I voted i dont want to be a parent. My ego is too big, and i can't afford it. How few can these days, is beyond me, but not beyond me seeing why that: some people will always have kids. Always.

sattii1987 · Answer

Well I had my first child when I was 26 and my second one is on the way now when I am 33

Apple1996 · Answer

I'm hoping to have all my kids before the age of 30. Still not set on how many I want though so might end up having my last at 30 but that's the oldest I would go.

Anonymous · Answer

I am 41, my husband is 40. Our kids are 5 yo and 1.5 yo. We are both more patient, educated, stable in our careers. Those all make parenting a lot easier in my opinion. And they will keep us young longer, and I plan to enjoy that.

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