How would you deal with a friend who at 35 doesn't have their life together? (Page 3)

[blondfrog]

I mean at this point at her age you confronting her about probably won't make a difference.

[Still-alive]

Talk to her but do not judge her for it or she will likely not open up to you about it. Just be open minded and understanding of her. Empathy.

[pigoat]

People i know are gonna do what they are gonna do


No matter how you handle it

[red324]

Be their friend, but the fact that she's still looking for her career and a guy isn't really your problem. It's not your job to fix her problems.

[Mangospacho]

If it’s harming her, you can address it, but chances are you’re not the first to address it so she might respond negatively.

[Tstrbrainer]

You can just talk to her for once or twice, that's all.

Not everyone wants an organized life. Just talk to her and see if she wants to change or not?

[4dmins-4-13itches]

That is not acceptable at her age I would address it or dump her personally

[OnTheLevel]

She's already decided she doesn't want to make anything of her life. I don't think she's fixable at this point.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

I'm 32 and I still don't have a girlfriend, or a career. I have a job, but barely, and no suitors when it comes to women

[HawkPerception]

I'm getting to that point too it seems

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Partly due to pandemic though

[Anonymous]

you know what, i'd just let her be. that's HER problem.

[lazermazer]

This girl won't listen , don't bother else she will be trouble for you too.

[bamesjond0069]

Id cut it off with her. she's only going to bring you down.

[robocop666]

saying nothing will not help her. You are her friend so help her and tell her to get it together

[Uptowngirl88]

I've given her solutions she's not utilizing them so now she's on her own

[robocop666]

help them and if they dont want help move on

[sp33d]

Has she ever had to work hard for something?

[zagor]

You can buy your own health insurance...

[nojokecarmichael]

You don't

[jimmy2]

Pray for her