your experience with a stepparent. My mom always told me “GIRL, YOU ONLY GOT ONE MAMA! AND THATS ME!!” 🤣 Trust, one mom was enough. I’d neeeever call a step anything a step anything. If you are not my blood parent then you are just “Mr/Mrs (insert your name here).” Shit, I dont even call my own sperm donor “dad/father”. Fck i look like calling the next ninja that. Boyyy you just a replacement. Nothing more
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I am in such a situation as a 'step Dad' to two of second wife's grown sons. Her eldest is 'estranged by his choice' and theoretically I have two grandchildren I'm forbidden to see. Her younger Son is in his early 30's and engaged. Both he and his fiancee consider me as 'Dad'. These days, blended families are challenging relationships based upon who's "there for you"... rather than genetic heritage, if the first partner is a parasitic narcissist I told the elder son, I'd respect his wishes HOWEVER should his children / MY grandchildren upon reaching 18, elect to make contact... I'll respect THEIR wishes over his and TELL THEM WHOM ruined those precious years for them.
Their estranged grandparents live within an hour's drive of five major theme parks. And would have loved to grown to get to know our grandchildren.~ Those kids will be in our will, her eldest son and spouse, will not.